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57 F Beaverton, OR

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 45–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:12pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am outgoing, genuine, and young for my age in mind, body and spirit. I have my parents to thank for that – good genes. Learning while living is very important to me. The man I choose to share my life will enjoy learning with me: mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I want a kind, compassionate and curious soul – someone who really wants to understand who I am, where I came from, and where I want to go and someone who really wants me to understand him and share his life with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Transitioning into my "second act" and still trying to figure out this crazy world in which we live in. There is so much to learn…isn't there? I used to be a dancer and actress on Broadway, now I have channeled my theater talents into the insurance and financial industry. Go figure...? I love my career--I get to help people make tough and important choices, which can better their lives. I appreciate the flexibility, because I am self-employed. I have total control of my own schedule and I cherish that freedom. I am looking for more simplicity and tranquility in my life, while still working hard toward establishing a secure retirement--hopefully, within the next 11 years. I hope to find that special someone along the way to join me for the "third and final act." I am confident that it will bring a standing ovation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
People tell me that, I am an awesome cook, a great dancer, and I am easy to talk to. Also, great kisser for those who have had the pleasure to experience.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, positive energy, sincere compassion for others, and the red hair, of course.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite, dark chocolate, home grown tomatoes, red wine, fresh air, hikes in the woods, the coast, time with that special someone, spooning before falling asleep, Sunday mornings in bed; coffee, paper, cuddling, kisses and...?

Also, dancing in the kitchen while cooking, hopefully with that special someone, or just swing dancing by myself around the house with my kitty in my arms, forgetting about the housework I should be doing.

I also love the theater--pretty much anything. Drama, comedies, musicals, opera, ballet, contemporary dance, the symphony. Ashland, the Gerding, small intimate, experimental, community, you got me, let's go. Please, be fond
of the arts or we will not be a good match.

Fine dining to a hole in the wall; a great find turns me on. I am a foodie. Favorites: sushi, NW eclectic, seafood, Thai, Indian, Mediterranean.
Love being in the kitchen with someone who enjoys the same. It can be very romantic, sensual, and sometimes over the top sexy. If our food burns, but we had fun...oh, well. ;-) There will be another day to try that dish. We won't starve. Trust me...

As for music, I love Motown, R&B, and classical. As I get older, I prefer jazz, classical, zen, or world music for daily background music. However, when I want to dance, most anything goes, as long as it makes me move. Artists, so many: Aretha Franklin, Frante, Jason Mraz, Mark Knoffler, Stevie Ray Vaughan, Prince, Bach, Chopin, etc. This is hard, because it is so in the moment. There is different music for every mood and experience...there is the music, the talent, our senses, who you are with, what you are doing, but in the end it is just being present. Does it feed your soul...? And if it does mine, it is all good. Found a new artist tonight on OPB, Jesse Cook; beautiful.

Movies; there are too many, if they can make me think, feel, or laugh, I am a fan. Specifically, these come to mind: Love Story, Gone With the Wind, Bridge Over the River Kwai, Saturday Night Fever, Grease, Funny Girl, My Fair Lady, Circle of Friends, Remains of the Day, Room With a View, The Piano, Airplane, Talk to Her (Almodovar), Food Nation, Pan's Labyrinth, The Enchanted, Life is Beautiful, The Squid and the Whale, Ratatoullie, American in Paris, The Big Chill, Chocolat. It goes on and on. But, this should give you a glimpse of my tastes. I can even enjoy an "action" pic once in awhile, if it is well done, has some romance, and it makes you "happy". :-)

I read more non-fiction than fiction. Lately, Power of Focus. Favorites: Power of Now; Eat, Pray, Love; and The Art of Happiness, by the Dalai Lama. Also, have Grisham on my nightstand.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Meaningful and heartfelt communication
My family
Oh, and I almost forgot! My toothbrush. I know it is more than six, but…rules are made to be broken so long as it does not hurt anybody, right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our world and how I can help... Having someone near me to love, touch, kiss and explore. How I am going to get to retirement and be able to travel and play golf on a regular basis. What my three kitties are thinking at any given moment and do they understand any part of our "conversations"?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing from the work week, cooking a nice meal, planning my weekend, or out with a friend for drinks and dinner, or maybe even dancing. No special plan usually; I take it as it comes. I love surprises.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My mind has very little down time. Yoga, please help me...
You should message me if
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I have piqued your interest with anything I have written.

I am looking for a serious golfer. It is a passion of mine and I want it in my life always, or at least until I can't walk or swing my arms. I hope that's in my 90's, at least. It is such a wonderful activity with your partner, beautiful walks in the park and the option to incorporate it into your travels, another passion of mine.

If you would like to golf, dance, hike, listen to live music, I would be up for it. Or, maybe the more obvious, a cup of coffee or glass of wine, just to to see...I am game.

If you have read this far, I am impressed, and I think it deserves at least a contact or wink. Please, don't be afraid to give it a try. I don't bite...just nibble lightly.

All my best to you on your search and enjoy the journey!