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61 M San Diego, CA

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My self-summary
I'm 55, 6'1", 185 lbs., with dark blond hair and blue eyes. I was born in Montana and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area. I went to college at UC Berkeley and UC Santa Cruz. I play piano and write, arrange or improvise music. I enjoy art, writing and music in general. I love Europe, good books, good conversation, swimming, classic movies (and classic everything else.) My tastes are "upper-middle-brow." I'm equally comfortable chatting with "joe-six-packs" and aristocrats.

I am easy going, well-educated, and bohemian
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a consultant in the energy business. I travel back and forth between my house in Palm Springs and my home in San Diego. I am working on building my repertoire of songs (jazz and Broadway standards, movie themes, some classical pieces) and generally enjoying life.
I’m really good at
Music, writing, art, analysis (historical, political, philosophical, literary, etc.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Some favorite books: Anatole France: At the Sign of the Reine Pedauque; Saki (H.H. Munro): Short Stories; Jules Verne: Off on a Comet...Journey To the Center of the Earth; H.G. Wells: Short Stories; Sir Arthur Conan Doyle: Short Stories; John Steinbeck: Cannery Row; Franklin Dixon: The House on the Cliff, other Hardy Boys mysteries.

Some favorite movies: Jerry Lewis in "The Patsy"; "Rosemary's Baby"; "Jacob's Ladder"; Alfred Hitchcock's "North by Northwest"; "Charade"; "Arabesque"; "The Heroes of Telemark"; "36 Hours"; Bette Davis in "Beyond the Forest"; "Whatever Happened to Baby Jane"; Rod Steiger in "The Pawnbroker"; Jack Lemmon in "Good Neighbor Sam."

Some favorite music: Piano music of Art Tatum (jazz); John Barry's movie scoring for "From Russia with Love", "Dr. No", "Thunderball", "You Only Live Twice", and "Body Heat"; Leslie Johnson's TV scoring for "The Avengers"; the musical "Silk Stockings"; Bach's Orchestral Suites, Saint Matthew's Passion and piano concertos; Tschaikovsky's "The Nutcracker"; Ravel's Piano Concerto in G; Brahms' Piano Trios; Four-Hand piano music by Schubert and Mendelssohn; Kurt Weil and Bertolt Brecht's "Happy End" (with Lotte Lenya.)

Some favorite food: corned beef hash; steamed artichoke with mayonaise; creamed spinach; corn fritters; yorkshire pudding; prime rib with horseradish cream; cream of celery soup; cream of brocoli soup; filet mignon with Bearnaise sauce; chilled chicken liver pate with toast points; cold fried chicken; raspberries and mandarin oranges in creme Anglaise; chocolate mousse; strawberry shortcake; lemon torte (lemon mousse, sponge cake, lemon gelatin, whipped cream); steamed hot dogs with mustard or grilled hot dogs with cheddar cheese; lamb with mint jelly; Wienerschnitzel; crab crepes with mayonaise, cheddar cheese and hollandaise; grilled tiger prawns stuffed with crab in Bearnaise sauce; crab and mayonaise sandwiches on toast; cucumber and mayonaise sandwiches; deviled eggs; hard boiled eggs in French mayonnaise sauce (only in France.)
The six things I could never do without
Good...books, food, weather, friends, music. And natural beauty.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever catches my attention and seems interesting. How's that for a cop-out? In general, I think a lot about politics, economics, whatever books I am reading, whatever music I am listening to or working on, and the people in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home avoiding the crowds and drunks. But then I go out for a drink just before "last call."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am actually interested in being a gentleman.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 37–108
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're young, goodlooking, smart, rich, nice, well-mannered, humorous, even-tempered, well-organized, an excellent and enthusiastic gardener-cook-housekeeper-secretary, and ready to sign a prenup. Just kidding!