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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:23pm
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Used up
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Somewhat), Korean (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Down to earth and humble. Gentle.

I love cats.

Those who know me love me. I aspire to live a happy and simple life.

To live humbly, and richly. I enjoy dusk and other mysterious and quiet moments of life.

I am genuine, patient, kind, and sweet. I am slow to anger, and fast to forgive.

My mom thinks I'm amazing ;)

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
When it come to life, I like 'come what may' more than 'abandon ship!'

Back in the state after a few years in PNW and Cali. Good times. NC is also good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am outstandingly good at petting cats.

I could also hold your hands or nod my head while you talk. I can pretend to listen, while not listening. Because I'm a guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I listen to the Hammerklavier.

I listen to the Prairie home companion.

Denn alles Fleisch es ist wie Gras, und alle Herrlichkeit des Menschens wie des Grases Blumen. Das Gras ist verdorret und die Blume ...

I love Captain Jean-luc Picard. Make it so!

I love Billy Pilgrim. Po tee weet. So yeah, I like Vonnegut. Also Kundera's Unbearable Lightness. And I read a lot of businessy type books. Good books are more valuable than gold. They transform the way you think. When is the last time you ate a good book?

I do love me some pecan pie.

"When the artist is alive in any person, whatever his kind of work may be, he becomes an inventive, searching, daring, self-expressing creature. He becomes interesting to other people."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I often find people who list things like wine here to be incredibly shallow.

But not as shallow as I am, since ice cream would be on my list.

I enjoy things like running and hiking. I like things like soaring mountains, placid lakes, giant trees, small flowers, sound of a roaring river, murmur of a brook, the noisy chirp of morning birds, the stillness of snow falling, the bright azure of the sky on a sunny day, the darkness of thunderclouds on a midday.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why cats are so cute ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
still single, still good looking
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to drink coffee with me. You want to go for a walk.

You are mature and interesting. Faithfulness comes with maturity.

Or you're a rich heiress! ;)

I'm pretty picky about looks. Sorry. Not sorry.