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34 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 4
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I try to take life seriously without taking myself too seriously. Shenanigans and hijinx are of the upmost importance while doing my best to change the world and help others. I endeavor to live a life aligned with my deepest values while taking the cultivation of random silliness very seriously. Kindness, honesty, weirdness, curiosity, silliness, self expression, humility, friendship, knowledge, consciousness, dreaming... all of these things are very important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a strong drive to be of service to others in a healing capacity. I love working with people and find my work very fulfilling and compelling. I have an insatiable curiosity about life and what it means to be human. To this end, try to learn from everything and everyone I encounter.

I work in the mental health field with highly symptomatic schizophrenic clients in a secure facility, but would like to eventually be doing more subtle work with individuals who have more insight into their inner world.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My curly hair and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Carl Jung, James Hillman, Soren Kierkegaard, David Whyte, Mark Epstein, Michael Eigen, Immanuel Kant, Mary Oliver, Edward Whitmont, Robert Johnson, Shaun McNiff, Rainer Maria Rilke, William James... oh my goodness, so many.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Trees
2. Art
3. Humor
4. Intellectual conversation
5. Deep friendship
6. Curiosity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. Helping others
2. Understanding life
3. Random silliness
4. Creativity and self expression
5. Existential conundrums
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical routine, a Friday night could mean having a drink with a friend, attending a lecture or exhibit, going out dancing, losing myself in crafty goodness, or snuggling up with a good book.
You should message me if
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you feel so inclined :0)