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57 F Hartford, CT

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 48–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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According to The Date Report, a study of surveyed men to find the most desirable traits of the perfect woman. Let's see how I stack up.

1. Brunette- yep, brunette everywhere

2. She's 5'5"--nope, 5" 7"-ish though I might be a little shy of that now

3. 34c Bra--Nope 38DDD, sorry.

4. She's a nurse or teacher--Oh god, no. I actually like to earn real money.

5. Diets--(clears throat) I have my moments. Very tiny moments.

6. Gets along with her mother--Mom's passed, so . . . But I do get along with my sisters, and my father. Give me a few points here.

7. No tattoos--Do temporary ones count? No? Then no tattoos.

8. Subtle makeup--That picture up there--no makeup. How subtle is that?

9. Loves skinny jeans--Sure, I love skinny jeans. Doesn't mean I fit into any of them.

10. Loves Game Of Thrones--I'm sure I'll be wildly enthusiastic once I see the television show. Right now the first book is sitting on my nightstand sadly neglected in favor of Harry Dresden novels. I did take a Buzz Feed Game of Thrones personality test, once though. Does that count?

So I'm not the perfect woman. But I have my good points.

But let's talk about you.

According to most of the men's dating profiles I've read most of you are laid back, easy going and fun guys. As a woman who has watched guys have fun, which mostly involves watching the latest game on the tube and drinking beer, I can attest to the fact that many men's idea of fun does not mesh with a woman's. Also, many of you are particularly interested in "no drama," though you want someone who is physically active. It makes me wonder with who you are spending time. Either you manage to hook up with the small percentage of drama queens or you mean something else entirely.

Me? I'm looking for a somewhat sane man who intellectually curious, can carry on a conversation and is physically and emotionally available. Laid back, easy going, fun guys who don't want drama seem to me to be lacking in energy for what I have in mind.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write a lot, many and varied things. It's how I earn my money.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Baking. Reading strange glyphs on a piece of paper and telling you the story of your life. And apparently, buying the same color of shoe over and over again. What's up with that?
The first things people usually notice about me
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Aw shucks, how beautiful I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Exotic foods from foreign lands, junk foods, salads
Science fiction
Rock (all kinds except very heavy metal) and New Age. (What can I say. I'm a woman of extremes,)
Favorite Movies: (And there are many more, but) The Last Samurai, and Practical Magic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
high speed internet
cell phone
that's it I'm pretty low maintenance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the Universe and the next piece I'm will write.

Why you guys feel the need to put in your profile that you are looking for an "affectionate" woman. Isn't that rather the point?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing. (sigh)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have bad restaurant karma. It never fails, the order comes out wrong, something is forgotten, etc. Every time. Its very sad.

Also, I go to the gym five times a week. Results? Not so much. Let's just say that my personality isn't the only thing that is stubborn.

And I do one thing that you will never guess I do. Go ahead. Try to guess. Dare 'ya.
You should message me if
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the spirit moves you.