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57 Hartford, CT Woman


I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 42–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:42am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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According to The Date Report, a study of surveyed men to find the most desirable traits of the perfect woman. Let's see how I stack up.

1. Brunette- yep, brunette everywhere

2. She's 5'5"--nope, 5" 7"-ish though I might be a little shy of that now

3. 34c Bra--Nope 38DDD, sorry.

4. She's a nurse or teacher--Oh god, no. I actually like to earn real money.

5. Diets--(clears throat) I have my moments. Very tiny moments.

6. Gets along with her mother--Mom's passed, so . . . But I do get along with my sisters, and my father. Give me a few points here.

7. No tattoos--Do temporary ones count? No? Then no tattoos.

8. Subtle makeup--That picture up there--no makeup. How subtle is that?

9. Loves skinny jeans--Sure, I love skinny jeans. Doesn't mean I fit into any of them.

10. Loves Game Of Thrones--I'm sure I'll be wildly enthusiastic once I see the television show. Right now the first book is sitting on my nightstand sadly neglected in favor of Harry Dresden novels. I did take a Buzz Feed Game of Thrones personality test, once though. Does that count?

Now wait. Not satisfied with just one description of "the perfect woman," I went searching on that font of all knowledge, the internet. I found these written by a Gregg Alexander. And he show know, because he's a guy.

1.) She's sexy--not slutty. (check)

2.) She's cool--(double check, though that is matter of opinion.)

3.) She's smart and funny--Okay that's two things, but we'll let that slide. But yes, I am smart and funny. Really.

4.) She's got her life together. In this Mr. Alexander defines this elusive quality as someone who has her own career and life outside a relationship. Guess what! I do.

5.) She's real-- Here Mr. Alexander means she isn't some crazed drama queen that will go off on a man. Trust me. I like to keep my life as drama free as possible.

6.) She loves--Oh heck. Under my flinty exterior is a heart of marshmallow fluff. Now you know my secret. Be gentle, please.

So according to this, in my own self evaluation I'm just darn near perfect. (There must be something wrong here somewhere.)

Me? I'm looking for a somewhat sane man who intellectually curious, can carry on a conversation and is physically and emotionally available.

Now you may have noticed that I've put in as an age range, forty-two to sixty. Not that I expect that most guys are going to find a woman fifteen years older their ideal, but there are some that do, so feel free to send me a lovely message.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write a lot, many and varied things. It's how I earn my money.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Baking. Reading strange glyphs on a piece of paper and telling you the story of your life. And apparently, buying the same color of shoe over and over again. What's up with that?
The first things people usually notice about me
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My lovely Irish eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Exotic foods from foreign lands, junk foods, salads
Science fiction
Rock (all kinds except very heavy metal) and New Age. (What can I say. I'm a woman of extremes,)
Favorite Movies: (And there are many more, but) The Last Samurai, and Practical Magic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
high speed internet
cell phone
that's it I'm pretty low maintenance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the Universe and the next piece I'm will write.

Why you guys feel the need to put in your profile that you are looking for an "affectionate" woman. Isn't that rather the point?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing. (sigh)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have bad restaurant karma. It never fails, the order comes out wrong, something is forgotten, etc. Every time. Its very sad.

What? Not enough self disclosure?

I own an official 3-D Star Trek chess set. How's that for cool?
You should message me if
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the spirit moves you.