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40 F Pasadena, CA

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My self-summary
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Lover of.. ▶Black men, or a biracial mix thereof◀ Open minds that question social construct, & those who vibe on a similar sapio path. Casual sex does not advertise a desire for meaningless hook ups. It calls for intellectually stimulating connections, laughter, & the pOtEnTiAl for euphoric physical connection. Minus the expectation of monogamy, & success measured by lasting a lifetime. Allow connection to be progressive, as long as it's destined to be.
What I’m doing with my life
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Nurturing. Evolving. Fulfilling my soul & others. Embracing progressive principles. Reconnecting with historical aspects of human relations, pre-religious infiltration. Absorbing the solshine as often as time allows. Feeling human & alive, celebrating any reason to do so.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not taking it all, & leaving some. Opening up to new concepts. Being a soft place to fall.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Thats very individual..its all about what YOU notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Miguel. L.Boogie. James Blake. The Weeknd. Phaeleh. Tarrus Riley. Konshens. Quadron. Sohn. Kendrick. Lenny. J. Cole. Talib. Daft Punk. Jesse Boykins. J.T. The Hics. Thievery Corporation. Maxwell. Mayer Hawthorne. Jhene Aiko. Pharrell. Robert Glasper. Cody Chestnut. Usher. Zo. Andre. Wyclef. Frank Ocean. D'Angelo. E Badu. Mos Def. Jill. Common. Toots & the Maytals. Gregory Isaacs. M J. Stevie. Robert Nesta, Zig, Stevie, Damian, and the Ghetto Youths Crew. Jo Mersa. Yellowman. Miles Davis. J Legend. Amel. Bilal. Amy Winehouse. Goapele. Luciano. Steel Pulse. Sade. Al Green. Alicia Keys. Prince. Fela Kuti. Anthony Hamillton. Movado. Vybz. Sizzla. Marvin Gaye. Burning Spear. Estelle. Gyptian. Alborosie. Zapp Mama. Romaine Virgo. Peter Tosh. Rootz Underground. Musiq. Roots. Dancehall. R&B. Soul. Neo Soul. Motown. Jazz.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Endless ways to answer this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people in my life who capture my heart. Music. Soulful connections. Blissful physical collisions. The vast depth of our universe, and the inability to wrap our mind around whats beyond. Imagination. Buddha's selfless mind set.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Creating a social scene, or that of solitude, depending on the craving.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Silly rabbit, tricks are for kids.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You are a black or biracial mix thereof. Open to the lover-friends experience, with preservation. Creativity in the arts; writing, music, photography, film, spoken word/poetry, acting, dance, painting, drawing, graphic design..etc. =an elevated level of attraction.