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40 Pasadena, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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My self-summary
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Lover of.. ▶️Black, or a biracial mix thereof◀️ Open minds that question social construct, & those who vibe on a similar sapio path. Open to intellectually stimulating connections, & the potential for ✨connection beyond intellect.✨ Minus the expectation of monogamy, & success measured by lasting a lifetime. Allow connection to be progressive, as long as it's destined to be.
What I’m doing with my life
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Nurturing. Evolving. Fulfilling my soul & others. Embracing progressive principles. Reconnecting with historical aspects of human relations, pre-religious infiltration. Placing a higher value on my personal relationships & experiences, than anything I could ever own. Absorbing the solshine. Feeling human, alive, & celebrating any reason to do so. Fulfilling the committed relationship I have with myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not taking it all, & leaving some. Opening up to new concepts. Being a soft place to fall.🎐
The first things people usually notice about me
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Thats very individual..its all about what YOU notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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🎵Miguel. L.Boogie. Taylor McFerrin. Kastle. James Blake. The Weeknd. Phaeleh. Sam Smith. Tarrus Riley. Konshens. Quadron. Sohn. Lymbyc Systym. Kendrick. Lenny. J. Cole. Talib. Daft Punk. Jesse Boykins. J.T. The Hics. Thievery Corporation. Aloe Blacc. Mr. Thicke. Maxwell. Drake. Mayer Hawthorne. Jhene Aiko. Pharrell. Robert Glasper. Cody Chestnut. Usher. Zo. Andre. Wyclef. Frank Ocean. D'Angelo. E Badu. Mos Def. Jill. Common. Jamiroquai. Toots & the Maytals. Gregory Isaacs. M J. Stevie. Robert Nesta, Zig, Stevie, Damian, and the Ghetto Youths Crew. Jo Mersa. Yellowman. Miles Davis. J Legend. Amel. Bilal. Amy Winehouse. Goapele. Luciano. Steel Pulse. Sade. Alicia Keys. Prince. Fela & Femi Kuti. Anthony Hamillton. Movado. Vybz. Sizzla. Marvin Gaye. Burning Spear.. Gyptian. Alborosie. Zapp Mama. Romaine Virgo. Peter Tosh. Rootz Underground. Musiq Soulchild. Roots. Dancehall. R&B. Soul. Neo Soul. Motown. Jazz.🎵
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loving consciously
Depth of connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people in my life who capture my heart. Music. Soulful connections. Blissful physical collisions. The vast depth of our universe, and the inability to wrap our mind around whats beyond. Buddha's selfless mind set. The ridiculousness of anglo saxon conditioning. The amorousness of vulnerability. Racial injustice. Social justice. LGBTQ rights. Sex positivity. Masculinity. Feminity. Heteroflexibility. Gender roles, & expectations. Poly/Open relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Creating a social scene, or that of solitude, depending on the craving.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Silly rabbit, tricks are for kids.
You should message me if
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You are a black or biracial mix thereof, & open to the lover-friends experience, with preservation. You don't confuse my expression for promiscuity. You pursue your curiosity. You feel a sense of humble modesty, combined with a sense of open inhibition. You're comfortable with a open/poly mind set. Creativity in the arts; writing, music, photography, film, spoken word/poetry, acting, dance, painting, drawing, graphic design..etc. =an elevated level of attraction.