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starsilver

24 / F / straight / Single

Singapore, Singapore

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 2" (1.60m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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I am deep, intriguing, and unpredictable.

My Self-Summary

i love to read. and i'll appreciate someone who reads too.. i'm basically a more passive gal who prefers hanging out with friends in a cosy corner of starbucks to sweating it out in a game of squash. i tend to be more shy around strangers, but i can be pretty animated around close friends. or when speaking of subjects i am passionate about. which includes biological stuff (animal behavior, evolution, physio etc),psychology, personal beliefs etc.

i love cats. don't know what gift to get me for a present? look for something with cute cats in it and you won't go wrong.

i'm a complex being, alright? so start getting to know me, or you won't get anywhere.

What I’m doing with my life

i'm pursuing a masters degree. it was mainly because i felt unprepared for the monotony and toil of a 9 to 5 working life. i just wanna work at my own pace you know? cos i know i push myself hard enough, and i just didn't want a boss to add more pressure.

I’m really good at

learning new stuff. i pick up new ideas, concepts, techniques, skills quite effortlessly. although i must say i forget them quite effortlessly as well.. ah well, no one can really be that perfect.

listening. seriously. i am like.... the epitome of listening. i can maybe set up a stall and get paid for listening to people bitch about their lives.

writing. i express myself better in writing than in spoken words. i write beautifully long emails to my penpals detailing both the exciting, and the unsavory snippets of my life (and... lives of those around me. what can i say? you want a good listener in me? be a good listener to me as well!)

mixing around with people younger than me. probably has got something to do with the fact that i'm the second oldest in my extended family, with all those little monkeys to take care of.

The first things people usually notice about me

it's got to be my aura. and people watching. i am usually very quiet when i'm with a crowd of more than 4 people. and so, i sit back, listen and watch them interact with each other.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

my family and those few vitally important friends
my bed and pillow
my computer
my freedom (though it isn't exactly a thing, but let's just be abstract here ok?)
my money (and be practical as well while we're at it)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what i want to do with my life. i mean, this whole working everyday and coming home all slogged out doesn't seem the kinda life i want for a lifetime. there's got to be something better, i always think.

to be specific, i think about things like.... do i want to find someone and settle down now? do i wanna have kids? how many? do i wanna get a mediocre but relaxed job, or a demanding but higher paying job? do i wanna continue my studies? do i still make a good sister now that my brothers are all growing up? am i doing enough for my family?

maybe i think too much eh? keke...

On a typical Friday night I am

on my bed, with a good book in hand. (if i got nothing else planned) only a good friend can ask me out on a friday night, cos i'm probably starting to recharge for another week ahead, having exhausted my fuel tackling the perils of everyday life.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i've never kissed anyone before. other than my brother (on the cheek!!!), but let's not bring up the embarrassing past.

You should message me if

- you read. and can hold meaningful conversations in person and on emails/msn/phone/sms.

- you share common interests with me, but have something different and exciting to contribute to my life.

- you think you can handle me. rawrrrr.....

- you are not a lousy insufferable mistake of nature.

- you have all of the above traits.