I am sensitive, open-minded, and giving.
My Self-Summary
According to OKCupid's gay spectrum test, I am mostly gay. I'm not
seeking a relationship, per se. I feel like I need to expand my
social network in Madison, since I'm probably going to be here a
while.
I have 3 tattoos...really really want more. Interestingly, I have
virtually no pain tolerance. I do not like pain, but I love the
idea of having permanent art on my body, especially since I helped
draw 2 of them. I am also turned on by tattoos on other people.
majorly. real and fake. I like to draw on myself and other
people..and like it when other people draw on me.
I like
singing,
dancing and
photography.
In my free time I doodle, paint, watch tv/movies and make jewelry-
mostly earrings. I also like to go to clubs/bars once and a while
for dancing and occassional
karaoke.
I like talking. I can be awkwardly shy at first, but in the right
group of people I can be a chatterbox. I'm also a good at listening
when needed.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking at grad schools. I'd really like to stay close to Madison
so I can keep my job and stay in contact with my Little Sister.
we've been matched for a year and it's been a lot of fun. So far
UW-Mad, UW-Whitewater and U of M Twin Cities are on the list.
Still working retail...at the service desk and in the children's
department. I much prefer being out in the department instead of
crammed behind the service desk, having to deal with so many
customers.
I also do some volunteering at an LGBT center in Madison.
Eventually I think I would like to specialize in counseling
children and people in the LGBT community, so I feel like this is
good experience for me. so far it is going pretty well.
I’m really good at
I've been told I'm really good at talking to people I don't know,
typically I don't initiate conversations though. I'm a weird
combination of introversion and extroversion.
I am a fairly good singer as well. Not great, but good enough for
karaoke. I'm also incredibly skilled at making lists. Grocery
lists, to-do lists, I make lots of lists. I'm pretty good at Excel
spreadsheets and Powerpoint too.
I'm good with kids. I think this is because I'm not afraid of
acting like a total dork.
The first things people usually notice about me
hm, I really don't know...I will ask some people and get back to
this.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: the Harry Potter books, Dante's Inferno, The Scarlet Letter,
Night by Eli Weisel, all books written by Tori Hayden. I also enjoy
reading poetry, my favorite poets off the top of my head are
Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Anne Sexton, Sylvia Plath, and Edna St.
Vincent Millay.
Movies: Pirates (1, 2 & 3), Harry Potter, Sleepy Hollow, The
Sixth Sense, But I'm a Cheerleader, Heathers, Interview with a
Vampire, From Hell, Mask of Zorro, Practical Magic, Saved,
Juno
I really like TV too, right now fav shows: The L Word, Criminal
Minds, House, Buffy, Project Runway, ANTM, Top Chef
Food: I'm pretty much always in the mood for Chinese or Italian,
I'm not a vegetarian or a health nut but I like tofu and dislike
almost all condiments. NOT including ketchup. I just recently
started eating ketchup on fries. only fries. Oh, and my all time
favorite food, since I was very young, is mashed potatoes.
The six things I could never do without
cell phone, cable tv, birth control, internet, an occassional
shoulder to rest on, a camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I worry a lot. About realistic and unrealistic things. Mostly
regarding the health and well-being of friends and family. and
myself. you wouldn't believe how many times I've had
menengitis....
I also spend a lot of time thinking about the future. Mainly of
being a therapist, seeing patients/having my own office, and having
kids. I spend a lot of time thinking about having a family, also
having a permanent home and how I'd decorate it and stuff. This all
mostly when I have something in the present that needs my
attention.
On a typical Friday night I am
a) working
b) out with friends
c) a then b
d) locking myself in my room watching movies all night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm more desiring of love, and less of sex, than I like to let
on.
I expect more from myself than I do from anyone else. In nearly
every aspect of life.
You should message me if
You are interesting, nice, and know the difference between "its"
and "it's".
Also, if you want me to reply, please don't just message me "hey
what's up?". I never know how to reply to that. (if you give me
something else to work with I will consider it)