What is it about me that everyone passes up my profile. I am just someone like everyone else looking for love in this forsaken world. If you give me a chance you might like me.

I am very outgoing, and very athletic person.. I may not be a football star or what not, that does not mean i don't enjoy it. I play Amtgard which is a LARP.. Sword fighting with the best of them. I run around often with my nephew. I love hiking and walking in the woods when i get a chance.. I like just about anything in general.

I am a nerd and geek with interests in D&D, gaming and Star trek.. I just love the creative aspects of all things in all forms. I write for fun, though my writing is not that great, the story and emotion is there.

I am working really hard on becoming healthy but if you have ever been a big person, you know it is not easy. I am soda free for 4 years now.. I know it sounds stupid, I was incredibly addicted to soda.

I am very family and friend oriented. I want a family of my own with a lover and kid/s. I believe that love is not something that sees the bounds of gender. I do not care if your Gay, bi, straight or transgender, it ways very little in my thoughts when it comes to finding someone.

I am sure there is more, i can talk about myself but i have to leave a little bit of mystery.

I went to school for Hospitality management in both the fields of Culinary arts and Hotel and tourism. I plan to become either a General manager or a Quality Insurance inspector. I would like to retire into a small bed and breakfast to live out my life. Thinking about a change of career. I may end up back in school

I am a very good listener, I have an objective eye to help people solve their problems. I am wise beyond my years because I listen to everyone and have the ability to solve just about any problem.

Besides that. I am a writer.. While i am not really a good one, I do have an uncanny ability to convey emotions to the readers of the stories I do write.

My sunny disposition. It is a double edged knife because it can be annoying every now and then. I like to think that life is full of wonders and plan to enjoy all of them.. Very little people get to see the other side of me.

Books - Harry Potter, Interview with the vampire, True Blood
Currently reading the Wheel of Time series and the Sword of truth series is on my list as well.

Movies- Not a big fan of movies.. I am fine with just about anything that is actually creative. not the crap that is just a remake of something else. or even a remake of another idea...

Shows- Charmed, glee, Merlin, Naruto, Sailor moon, DB/Z, there are alot on my list.

As for music.. I have a very eclectic taste.. don't like just one band.. just like songs from this and that

Food.. I love to cook, love to bake... Love just about anything.

Family- My family is really important to me. I believe anyone who comes into my life has to live with my family.
My friends- I have a few but they are one of the things in my life that is constient
My cat- Its a double edge sword.. I love him to death.. I could not give him up
My work. I am not a lazy person.. I cannot stand not having something to do.. I go nuts when the doctor tells me i am on bed rest.

My future is the biggest thing that is always on my mind.... I always strive for something higher then the job I am in now..
My mind spends most of the time thinking about characters for stories and stuff. I never end up writing them down but I love thinking about them.

Typically do not have a Friday night.. My Friday night is Saturday.. On Saturday night, it is spent with dice, a map, and some friends. Then sunday morning it is beating people with foam weapons.

I have never been a real sexual person. I am fine with just physical touch more then physical release. I, However, do not mind being there for my partner.

If you would like to chat, think we might make a good match, or even would like to join or help me on my weight loss journey. oh hell anything really, i love to listen.