Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Invited to find out in the real world...
I will say though that I have been extremely happy (content and
happy) with my life for the past 7 years. Lots of traveling and
living in different places prior to that...
LA is home to me now.
I look and feel my age. Considering that 40 is the new 30 :-)
PS: The profile pic is a current (06/2015) self-portrait of myself.
That's what I look like (admittedly during the later part of the
day, not in the morning!). It is something along the lines that I
wish some of you would have on here (in regards to actual
visibility/non-blurry/out-of-focus/too small approach that the
majority choose). I am a highly visual person but at the same time:
wrinkles, mature skin, funny angles do not put me off: trying to
hide them does.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Many things, but usually only one thing at a time..I've been called
Renaissance man, but still haven't bothered to find out what it
exactly means..although I like the connotation...sounds liberating
I am an actor (yes, in LA) and I used to be a music
producer/composer for all my life prior to taking this new exciting
Ok, and it's about time that I can also call myself a photographer.
(you can see the current works of my instagram feed under photos)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking pictures, making music, holding a conversation (talking AND
listening:-)), mentoring oh, and here it comes - "Computers"!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sense for aesthetics.
Then in conversations: my energy, which is intense yet supportive
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Magnolia. Detachment. Manhattan. Chinatown. Gattaca. LA
Confidential. The Player. True Romance. Grease. Crimes and
Misdemeanors. There Will Be Blood.
Coen Brothers films.
Woody Allen films.
Robert Altman films.
John Huston films.
Some Werner Herzog, some Wes Anderson.. those last two in small
Parks & Recreation.
Curb Your Enthusiasm.
The Mighty Boosh.
The Increasingly Poor Decisions of Todd Margaret.
Truman Capote. Goethe. T.C. Boyle. Manuals.
Prince. David Bowie. Phoenix. Todd Rundgren. Chad Valley. Twin
Shadow. Prefab Sprout. deadmau5. Moloko. Bonobo. Apparat. Magnetic
Fields. Caribou. Brian Eno. Sebastien Tellier. Sigur Rós. Daft
Punk. Electric Light Orchestra. Philip Glass. Miike Snow. Boards Of
Canada. Grand National. Iron & Wine. Passion Pit. The Kills.
Elbow. The Kooks. Katy Perry (oops). Morrissey. The Shins. Ratatat.
Blur. Arovane. High Llamas. Ulrich Schnauss. Ash. Basement Jaxx.
Keane. Kings of Convenience. Grizzly Bear. Everything But The Girl.
Manic Street Preachers. The Beatles, METRONOMY. Timo Raisanen. Bon
Iver. Mayer Hawthorne. The Magic Numbers. Feist. Nightmares on Wax.
The The. Philip Glass. The Beach Boys. The Black Keys. Röyksopp.
Tegan and Sera. Kaada. The Snow. Tahiti 80. LCD Soundsystem. Coco
Rosie. Depeche Mode. The Editors. Laura Mvula. The Trash Can
Sinatras. Bic Runga. Cocteau Twins. The LA's. Joni Mitchell. Josh
Rouse. Todd Rundgren. Super Furry Animals. Ben Folds Five. The
Divine Comedy. Talk Talk. Blondie. AIR. Telefon Tel Aviv. Rufus
Wainright. The Specials. Zoot Woman. Wave Machines. Craig
Armstrong. Loney Dear. Nitin Sawhney. Vikter Duplaix. Jazzanova.
Saint Pauli. Yelle. Mutemath. Roxy Music. Bodi Bill. The Temper
Trap. Tame Impala.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends who care
Good food (italian, indian, japanese, thai)
Good weather (It feels I wasted too much time living in bad weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
..if I was better off dreaming...
and then I found one of my favorite quotes:
There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And
those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill
those dreams. Go into the third category because there's virtually
no competition. ~ Steven J. Ross
- why is it that I end up with only one Quiver match for more than
The last one is the one question I probably spent most of my
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing. Any day can become a Friday night.
I noticed though that a lot of the women on here come up with
fantastic events and busy Fridays when in fact I see everyone
hanging out on Okc instead. Kinda cute. :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Err, all the stuff above is already more than I have ever publicly
Oh, and I'm good with kids and dogs.
I look at the pictures first and then the profile.
I have absolutely no idea about bra sizes.
I don't know anything about wine either. Apart from that I prefer
Merlot and other reds to white wine.
I play quite a few instruments.
I can smile. I just don't in pics.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you were intuitive enough to figure out a little about myself from
what I wrote above...and of course if you like what you see
UPDATE: I am currently NOT in long-term dating mode. Although I
specified it in the other section it tends to get overlooked.
I've been in an open relationship for a year now. Committed.
Looking for friends and play partners these days.
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