I will say though that I have been extremely happy (content and happy) with my life for the past 7 years. Lots of traveling and living in different places prior to that...
LA is home to me now.
I look and feel my age. Considering that 40 is the new 30 :-)
PS: The profile pic is a current (06/2015) self-portrait of myself. That's what I look like (admittedly during the later part of the day, not in the morning!). It is something along the lines that I wish some of you would have on here (in regards to actual visibility/non-blurry/out-of-focus/too small approach that the majority choose). I am a highly visual person but at the same time: wrinkles, mature skin, funny angles do not put me off: trying to hide them does.
I am an actor (yes, in LA) and I used to be a music producer/composer for all my life prior to taking this new exciting path.
Ok, and it's about time that I can also call myself a photographer. (you can see the current works of my instagram feed under photos)
Then in conversations: my energy, which is intense yet supportive and engaging.
Coen Brothers films.
Woody Allen films.
Robert Altman films.
John Huston films.
Some Werner Herzog, some Wes Anderson.. those last two in small doses only...
Parks & Recreation.
Curb Your Enthusiasm.
The Mighty Boosh.
The Increasingly Poor Decisions of Todd Margaret.
Truman Capote. Goethe. T.C. Boyle. Manuals.
Prince. David Bowie. Phoenix. Todd Rundgren. Chad Valley. Twin Shadow. Prefab Sprout. deadmau5. Moloko. Bonobo. Apparat. Magnetic Fields. Caribou. Brian Eno. Sebastien Tellier. Sigur Rós. Daft Punk. Electric Light Orchestra. Philip Glass. Miike Snow. Boards Of Canada. Grand National. Iron & Wine. Passion Pit. The Kills. Elbow. The Kooks. Katy Perry (oops). Morrissey. The Shins. Ratatat. Blur. Arovane. High Llamas. Ulrich Schnauss. Ash. Basement Jaxx. Keane. Kings of Convenience. Grizzly Bear. Everything But The Girl. Manic Street Preachers. The Beatles, METRONOMY. Timo Raisanen. Bon Iver. Mayer Hawthorne. The Magic Numbers. Feist. Nightmares on Wax. The The. Philip Glass. The Beach Boys. The Black Keys. Röyksopp. Tegan and Sera. Kaada. The Snow. Tahiti 80. LCD Soundsystem. Coco Rosie. Depeche Mode. The Editors. Laura Mvula. The Trash Can Sinatras. Bic Runga. Cocteau Twins. The LA's. Joni Mitchell. Josh Rouse. Todd Rundgren. Super Furry Animals. Ben Folds Five. The Divine Comedy. Talk Talk. Blondie. AIR. Telefon Tel Aviv. Rufus Wainright. The Specials. Zoot Woman. Wave Machines. Craig Armstrong. Loney Dear. Nitin Sawhney. Vikter Duplaix. Jazzanova. Saint Pauli. Yelle. Mutemath. Roxy Music. Bodi Bill. The Temper Trap. Tame Impala.
Good food (italian, indian, japanese, thai)
Good weather (It feels I wasted too much time living in bad weather cities)
and then I found one of my favorite quotes:
There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill those dreams. Go into the third category because there's virtually no competition. ~ Steven J. Ross
I noticed though that a lot of the women on here come up with fantastic events and busy Fridays when in fact I see everyone hanging out on Okc instead. Kinda cute. :-)
Oh, and I'm good with kids and dogs.
I look at the pictures first and then the profile.
I have absolutely no idea about bra sizes.
I don't know anything about wine either. Having said that I prefer Merlot and other reds to white wine.
I play quite a few instruments.
I can smile. I just don't in pics.
UPDATE: I am currently NOT in long-term dating mode. Although I specified it in the other section it tends to get overlooked.
I've been in an open relationship for 1 ½ years now. Committed. Looking for friends and play partners these days....