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startingover41

48 / F / Straight / Single

Utica, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Aug 9, 2006
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well, I am a single mom of three - looking for someone like me - {{funny}}, {{outgoing}} and {{caring}}....I have alot of love to give that person who can treat me right...I have been in too many relationships where all the men are interested in is controlling me and trying to mold me into what they want me to be...

Maybe it's finally time in my life to do what I want for ME - be happy - have fun!! I have 3 great kids...they are old enough to watch themselves while mom goes out thank god! They are the most important thing in my life - but I also realize that I need to make time for myself once in awhile too. My idea of a perfect evening with someone special? Go out to a nice dinner - then just spend the rest of the evening talking and enjoying each other...

I love to cook - love movies - music (yes even though I am "older" I still love to rock out!) No "easy listening" here - Fave bands are Nickelback, Hoobastank, Green Day, Our Lady Peace, Vertical Horizon...still love the classic rock as well! Love to try new things...like I said - I think I am breaking out of my mold - want to be adventurous and free!!

Anyway - there is so much more to me than I can fit here...if you are curious to find out more - drop me a line - I promise you won't be disappointed!

I am funny, outgoing, and caring
What I’m doing with my life
Starting over! Just like the name implies...I just ended a seven year relationship - he was very controlling and just didn't treat me very well...

I am more or less just trying to break out of my shell - be "reborn" again so to speak! The kids and I have a new house - I am starting a new job soon - just need someone fun and caring to spend some time with - someone who can appreciate me for ME!
I’m really good at
lots of things...let's keep some mystery here shall we? Contact me and I will be happy to share...
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile - I have been blessed with dimples...

My outgoing personality and ability to make people laugh!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A - no time to read now unfortunately - but I used to read {{Stephen King}} quite a bit years ago.

B - Love horror films - adventure - comedies - and who isn't a sucker for a nice sappy romance?

C - Good ole rock and roll! Nickelback, Hoobastank, Our Lady Peace, Vertical Horizon - so many more!

D - Italian - Mexican - Lebanese
The six things I could never do without
Love, Laughter, My Kids, Friends, Music, Companionship
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with the kids! Hopefully that will change soon!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Shhhh - can't tell!! Even here...
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want someone to make you feel like the most special person in the world...