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startngvr

39 / M / straight / Single

Carlisle, Pennsylvania

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
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Education
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
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Kids
Has children
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Languages
English

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I am sweet, compasionate, and honest.

My Self-Summary

I have been single for over 2 years now and have dated several women but the one thing I have found is that I must be the last person on the planet that can date just one person at a time. Whether I am in a serious relationship or not I feel that the only way to have any kind of relationship is to be with only that person until you decide whether or not you want to take it to the next level. If you don't want to take it to the next level move on don't date several people at a time. Maybe I am wrong for feeling this way but that's who I am.

What I’m doing with my life

I am trying to be the best example of a father that I can be to my girls without ever knowing any descent father figure but God in my life.

I’m really good at

being a father and boss.

The first things people usually notice about me

is my bald head and goatie and some say I look intimidating but then when I smile they say I have a nice smile.

The six things I could never do without

Faith and Love
My daughters
chicken
working out
laptop
goals

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My daughter's future and whether I am doing a good enough job with raising them. My future and eventually getting in a bodybuilding competition.

On a typical Friday night I am

cuddling with my little girl watching a movie and when I don't have her watching a movie by myself.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

....can't think of anything lol.

You should message me if

you have substance and not just beauty.