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31 F Singapore, Singapore

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:02pm
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a firm believer of the mantra touted in a Glengarry Glen Ross movie — Always Be Closing.

Okay seriously; I'm first and foremost a movie aficionado. :D Watching good movies, reading film critiques and discussing them over coffee or drinks with good friends count as a nice weekend for me. I'm generally mellow and reserved — the one you find lurking in the corner of a room at large gatherings. Contrary to first impressions, I'm not a "chiongster" (hardcore drinker / party animal).

Deep down I'm a closet low-context communicator. The introvert trying to ham it up and blend in with a sea of high-energy high-context chameleons at work.

In private, I have the soul of a 13 yo teenage boy housed in the casing of a 31 yo woman. When truly relaxed, I'm a messy, blunt tomboy guilty of pointing out the white elephant, making frank observations and fashioning them into words.

I'm naturally drawn to warm energy; but for the sake of self-reporting bias, buddies have described me in Facebook using these five words: adventurous, complex, honest, observant and assertive.

Recent events have prompted me to partake in life as much as possible, as rigorously as I can — life is short. So I'm basically here to widen my social circle, meet new people, find more movie kakis and if the chemistry is there, a partner in crime.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
To paraphrase Woody, if it doesn't make the rest of your life look like a massive let-down then you're not doing it right.

I'm gaining momentum.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
brutal criticisms. :P
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm singaporean chinese but strangers always seem surprised when I converse in mandarin. =_=
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A Prophet, Amour, No Country for Old Men, Singapore Dreaming, Dawn of the Dead, Wit, Apocalypse Now, Jagten, The Great Beauty, Michael Apted's Up Series, Wong Kar Wai and Woody Allen films

Hemingway, Hunter S. Thompson, Salinger, Joseph Heller and various non-fiction books on whichever subject strikes my fancy for the week

Angels in America, Band of Brothers, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Luther, Mad Men, The Thick of It, The Walking Dead, The Wire

Alicia Keys, Archive, Bruce Springsteen, Flume, Jeff Chang, Lenny Kravitz, Lycia, Massive Attack, Red Hot Chili Peppers, U2, Nina Simone, Slowdive

No—trick question
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Central nervous system, dopamine, oxytocine, irony, music and movies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Generation gaps, social constructs and psycho dynamics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either pigging out on the couch watching crime investigation network or downloaded films before flat lining...

Gaming with fellow zombie killers on Steam...

Or catching a movie with friends in town, debating with them over drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Enneagram 5w4 and camera shy.
You should message me if
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you want to go meta.

Alternatively; there's an interesting observation you'd like to share, want a counsellor for your growing pains or enjoy films as much as I do, feel free to send a message too. :D

*pass and move along if you 1) do not live in Singapore, 2) are seeking flings and casual hook-ups, 3) aren't within the age range I'm looking for (no offence millennials).