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43 F Scarsdale, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:30am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
While my profile is linked to Westchester, I work in Manhattan every day. So I travel between both City and 'burbs easily and often. I'm a very down to earth, straight talking girl who has a quick wit and a dry sense of humor. I can be impatient, but I am working on that. Like everybody else, I am a work in progress.

I am outgoing and vivacious. This doesn't make me a party girl, but I do have fun wherever I go. I enjoy social settings and can often be found hanging out with friends, initiating spontaneous gatherings, or out exploring the area. And while I can be the life of the party, I do like the quiet moments. I love my early morning runs or sitting in my backyard with a cup of coffee.

I was raised in California by hippies. So I recycle, garden, camp, and rescue bugs. I also rebelled against my parents and am a corporate tax attorney working for the evil empire. But they are hippies and so they love me for my rebellion. Drat!

I love to laugh and really appreciate a quick wit. I find intelligence sexy and confidence hot. I have been accused of caring too much, not having a thick enough skin, and having sharp elbows. Not really sure how those all good together, but apparently they do and it's me.

I have three great kids. They make my world amazing, exciting, and totally chaotic. They have a dad who loves them very much. Our relationship is surprisingly good. So there is very little to no risk of drama. That being said, all the reasons we divorced are still there, so there is zero risk of reconciliation. He is a great dad and my kids don't need a second one. I am not here for them, I am here for me.

I don't work with kittens and the orphaned. I don't spend all my time in a bikini. And I don't spend my free time climbing mountains, curing cancer, or discovering lost civilizations. All of this sounds awesome. But I have two very demanding jobs: my children and being a tax lawyer. I am just an ordinary girl who is passionate about her children, friends, family, and the world around her. (Speaking about myself in the 3rd person is just beyond weird).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am having fun. I have great kids, a great job, awesome friends, and a very close relationship with my parents. Life is good. And while my life is complete and satisfying, having someone to share it with would make it all that more incredible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out. Being full of useless knowledge. And guessing the right answer when the first two fail.

Cooking and having an inviting home. My friends regularly come to my house for good food, better wine, and great conversation.

My job. I love what I do and I am good at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and that I am not what they expected, but in a good way. Apparently, I need a better copywriter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: most books. I love to read fiction. Non-fiction always strikes me like okra. If done well, it's good. If done poorly, you wish you had a dog to feed it to.

Food: sushi, stinky cheese, Ethiopian food, Thai food, and French food.

Shows: Modern Family, Vegas, Copper (BBC), The Following, Under the Dome, Top Gear (BBC), MNF...

Movies: Caddyshack, The Mummy series (maybe that should be part of my willing to admit section below), Buster Keaton, Withnail and I, Much Ado About Nothing, Nightmare Before Christmas, all the Bond films (well, not all of them), action films, anything with Hepburn in it, basically anything worthwhile from the 30s to the 60s, the Royal Tannenbaums, Down by Law.

Music: most kinds. I enjoy more towards alternative/ punk, but you can find me listening to current hits with my kids. My Pandora account is wildly confused: Pink, Fugazi, Leonard Cohen, U2, Katy Perry, Beatles, Pixies, Rhianna, One Direction, Bowie, Imagine Dragons. You get the picture.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends. My kids. Music. Savory food. Wine and cheese (I know this is two, but wine and cheese is a devine combination). And some sort of mobile communication device. (In no particular order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about what makes people tick, what motivates them, and why they do what they do.

Why my NFL mobile app hates me. It clearly is bent on not telling me the current standings.

Why so many men are photographed without shirts and with fish. There has got to be a cottage industry in shirtless fish photos. Maybe a booth at Coney Island.

And how is it three small people can create such a huge mess in such a short period of time. They have got to be getting help from someone else.

Why men look better with hats. Maybe women do too, but I don't see their pictures in such abundance.

How to get off this online dating treadmill.

Why OKC gives me people in East Harlem as being local when I am in Midtown and why it gives me people as being local who are in Greenwich Village when I am on the train out of the City. I'm think OKC needs a geography lesson or to at least understand and appreciate NYC. This isn't Kansas where everything is a 30 min. drive. No offense Kansas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with my kids watching a movie, eating popcorn, and giggling like a teenager. Or out with friends for drinks and dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have really long toes. I don't know what it means. But it drove my physical therapist crazy while trying to rehab me from a broken ankle (2 plates and countless pins - funny story, but that's for a different question.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know what you want, are serious about it, aren't afraid to take chances, are self-assured, and like to laugh.

Don't contact me if you are hung up on your ex, looking for someone to replace your mom, or are just wildly sketchy. I'm not your therapist, mother, or freaky.