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32 Adelaide, Australia Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 4
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5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English, Chinese (Fluently), Indonesian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello friendlies! Upfront thing up top- I've been in a monogamous relationship with an awesome man for the past seven years. I'm happy in this relationship. But over time I've become more aware of how much I miss the relationships I used to have with women. So we're opening up a little bit. I'm in exploratory mode. This is new.

About me? Some things:

I was born in America but I moved to Indonesia when I was a kid, then Australia. Cumulatively I've lived in Australia for nearly half my life. I finally got citizenship last year. Hurray!

I used to do a lot of hitchhiking but I've come the the conclusion hitchhiking is not a very smart thing to do.

I'm wont to indulge in a feminist rant.

I've wanted a macaw since I can remember but I'm waiting until I'm settled enough to make such a commitment (says the lady with the six-year-old).

I'm an introvert.

I don't have a car. It's inconvenient but not so bad because I like public transport and don't mind walking long distances.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've just moved to Adelaide. I'm about to start my library science-related masters degree because that is exactly what someone like me does at 31. I have the aforementioned kid so I spend a lot of time pretending to be things and crawling around playgrounds even though I am really tired.

Otherwise I spend my time absorbing a ridiculous amount of media.
I’m really good at
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Whistling in the dark.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My nose? I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Quite a bit, like everyone. An attempt at brevity:

Books: Comics, books about politics/culture/history/language.

Movies: Cowboy movies! Space movies! Kung fu movies! And other movies!

Shows: Buffy, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Freaks and Geeks and Breaking Bad. Obvs.

Music: The Mountain Goats, Micachu, Big Boi, The Magnetic Fields, They Might Be Giants.

Food: Anything Southeast Asian. Anything spicy, even.

Podcasts: The Bugle, TAL, WTF, Sinica, Radiolab, Savage Lovecast, Judge John Hodgman, Roderick on the Line, Sound Opinions, Memory Palace, The Truth, Benjamen Walker's Theory of Everything, History of English, Planet Money, Slate Poltical/Culture/Double X Gabfests, The Moth, and others nooo this is not a brevity.

Can I put maps in here somewhere? I really like maps.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Birth control, podcasts, hot sauce, pockets, sleep, my feet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Studying, working or watching movies with my family. Occasionally I pop 'round a friend's place and even more occasionally I go watch a band play. Wild!
You should message me if
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I like people who like things.