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steadyward

42 / M / Straight / Single

Atlanta, Georgia

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:08pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Any josh ritter fans out there? I'm a good guy with a nice sense of humor and a desire for depth and meaning. I am addicted to watching smart and incisive comedy - even when it seems lowbrow.

One of my biggest inspirations is live music by passionate performers - Eddie Vedder and Bruce are great examples.

Other inspirations are Yellowstone, the Great Ocean Road in Australia, and the volcanoes of Guatemala and Hawaii.
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring new ideas - am fascinated with evolutionary studies and the ways our evolutionary extincts are at work in our lives.

Working. Not being sneaky, but my job has a stereotypical perception that I don't feel like being stereotyped as. Just ask me, and I'll tell you.

Parenting boy/girl ten year old twins - they are really sweet and light me up every day. I have an easy-going custody arrangement with their mom.

Planning a trip to the Baja Peninsula to Kayak with the whales - any takers?

Listening to the Clash, reading about Joe Strummer.

Trying to find time to read a backlog of New Yorker and Rolling Stone issues.
I’m really good at
Writing. Except this crap I'm sure!
Speaking in front of large groups of people.
Perceiving the needs of those around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
A strong chin and a quietness that rewards those who wait for what lies beneath. I have a quick sense of humor, but have no interest in competing with the loudest and most aggressive conversation dominators in any given group.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Arrested Development, Mr. Show, Tim and Eric Awesome Show, Community.
Wonder Boys by Michael Chabon and Assassination Vacation by Sarah Vowell. Loved David Cross' I Drink for a Reason. Bossypants by Tina Fey.
Rushmore, Into the Wild, Being John Malcovich, The Ten, Brothers Solomon. No Country for Old Men gets deeper and more profound every time I watch it.
Pearl Jam, Josh Ritter, Bright Eyes, the Hold Steady, Ani DiFranco, Arcade Fire and Spoon - Titus Andronicus, My Morning Jacket , Sleater-Kinney.
The six things I could never do without
My kids
Ketchup - not quite as much as my kids
Great live music - regularly Pearl Jam
My Joe Greene jersey
My cat - just had one die on me.
Arrested Development and Party Down DVD's
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lists - bests, favorites, presidents, and dorky things that can't be revealed at this point.
What the best ways to spend the days with my kids are without losing my mind.
And Evolution, baby! How we got here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out somewhere with a group of friends. East Atlanta, Decatur, Inman Park, or the Grove in Toco Hills.

Of course some nights are spent finishing off Clue and Yahtzee with my kids, and watching the latest Disney movies and Food Network Challenges before bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I kind of have a fixation on the American Buffalo - or Bison. Love them and what they represent.

But come on, that's not private. If by private you mean embarrassing - I love professional wrestling. There. I said it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to laugh, think, and enjoy somebody's company. If the kiddos thing is not your thing, I get it. Just be straight with me about it.