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28 Albuquerque, NM Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:25pm
Straight, Demisexual
5' 10" (1.77m)
Body Type
Not at all
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Cyclist, climber, introspective, late bloomer. Ambivert. Probably more boring than you. PTSD sufferer. Actively managing anxiety/depression. Unplugged from social media. I think online dating sucks. Really every dating service is just inorganic and creates a window-shopper effect. Still here though. Deal with it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working part time and being a lazy ass most days. I'll spend 6 hours on a video game then realize I haven't accomplished anything so I'll end up spending 3 hours at the climbing gym or going for an hour run.

Getting back into school slowly because debt terrifies me, but being in an industry that will be obsolesced by self-driving cars in 20 years is even scarier.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I get monomaniacal about my pursuits. Last summer I picked up cycling and finished up a metric century, picked up running and did several 5ks in a lion kigu. The year before I picked up climbing and scored a 5.12- toprope gym climb. Which is basically meaningless but ~it takes commitment~
The first things people usually notice about me
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I try to be outgoing but I really don't know how.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: SciFi, Cyberpunk. Currently on King's Dark Tower series

Movies: Foreign shit, dark shit, SciFi, those movie series based on books for young adults featuring totalitarian governments and dystopian cities.

Shows: there's no many I care about. Television is bad. I watch it to feel like I'm not alone. I tripped out when I found out Fisk in the new Daredevil was Private goddamn Gomer Pyle.

Music: Trip Hop, Old school House, Local cooldudes, FolkPunk, Snorecore, Hippy bullshit, Bedroom Ravetunes, Die Antwoord

Food isn't incredibly personal to me. I just try to get intuitive about it. Sometimes my joints will get sore so I'll make some eggs. Or like, I'll get a head rush so I'll make some liver. Who cares.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
And the rest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a more emotionally fulfilling life rather than just going for hard work and cheap thrills.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can only really afford to be a homebody these days. Though if an activity is low or no-cost, I'll usually go.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I put forth a lot of effort to connect to people but often find myself unable to. It's probably one of those things that a psychiatrist would tell me everyone has, but damn if it isn't discouraging.
You should message me if
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You aren't looking to jump into a relationship all fast and furious or wanna bump right away but you still wanna enjoy someone's companionship