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35 F Arlington, VA

My Details

Last Online
Sep 21, 2010
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Preface: I'm one half of a married couple polyNoVa looking to explore non-monogamy together: our relationship with you could be a friendship, casual sex, and/or the possibility of something more (see my husband's profile polyNoVa for more information).

Still interested?

I'm always attempting to expand my understanding of the world and my experiences in it. I read books, comics, and the backs of shampoo bottles while sitting on the toilet. I love dancing, especially when someone like Deadmau5 is spinning. I play video games- my favorites are rpgs, but I also get pretty excited about games like Call of Duty. There's something amazing about rock climbing and yoga, but my new focus is on kung fu and tai chi.

Still more:
born: seoul (allegiance- south)
raised: MN
live: arlington

1.6 parking spaces, 1.5 cats, 1 temporary parking permit, and 1 husband

love: potential, caffeine, lisa lampanelli, dessert

hate: english dubs of hong kong action films, road signs in DC, automatic transmissions

on the fence: xbox avatars, deLillo, working from home

I am spontaneous, intelligent, and hilarious
What I’m doing with my life
living it to the fullest extent possible. Attempting to experience all aspects of the human condition so I can make disparaging remarks about it later.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A variety of musicians from each of the following genres: classical, video game music, angry girls, depressed girls, sweater pulling girls, crappy radio-friendly rock with no musical merit whatsoever, metrosexual indie rockers, the gamut of electronic genres, and hip hop.

I know I'm supposed to like Radiohead, but I have trouble with Thom Yorke's voice.

** !$@*#! - deadmau5! **

Books --
awesome list:
The prologue to 'Underworld'. You can seriously throw out the rest of the book

mishima. steinbeck. chopin.

desert solitaire. lord of the flies. the awakening. 100 love sonnets (Neruda). transmetropolitan.

peace like a river.

nod to the nerd-hipster crowd:
kierkegaard. palahniuk. ellis - bret easton. camus. hunter S. irvine welsh. gaiman. selby jr. stephenson. gibson. templesmith. ellis - warren. reynolds.

hated list:
a seperate peace. red badge of courage.

hurt locker.
gran turino.
lars and the real girl.

God, David Lynch is weird.

I love it. All of it.
The six things I could never do without
1) family and friends
2) media - books, films, music
3) naps
4) a modicum of intelligence somewhere on this planet...

... I'm sure there are at least two more. I'll get back to you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Finishing up kung fu, taking a shower, then going out for drinks, dancing, and/or mischief. Sometimes we stay at home and order pizza, hold hands, watch movies, and perform sexually explicit acts, all of it followed by cuddling (barf, I know).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
All of my passwords are variations of Jet Li Movies.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me (or us) if you are interested in exploring a non-monogamous, potentially polyamorous relationship with an interesting, dynamic couple. As I said earlier, we're up for anything, but we're currently focused on meeting new people and toying with the idea of an open relationship.