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Pure_swing

30 Portland, OR Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:25pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I'm Stephen. INTJ. Kind, funny, generous, and a little crazy. Huge Introvert who doesn't mind time to himself. Not sure what life has in store. Just trying to live in the moment (more difficult than it sounds). I've been a very avid golfer for about 10 yrs, buy have decided that this summer is when my game gets to the next level. I have a new dedication and am looking forward to seeing how good I can get.

I'm still trying to figure out this relationship deal. It's very frustrating and for the most part doesn't seem worthwhile. I'm looking for someone to change that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking it day by day. Playing golf as much as my budget can handle. Trying to figure out what makes me truly happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not saying much, timely sarcasm, introspection, enjoying the small things, conversing with myself, rubik's cube, math
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Shaved head, baby blue eyes, muscular build, and i don't say much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Def Leppard, disturbed, 3 days grace, the killers, imagine dragons, blink 182 , angels and airwaves, cold play, bone thugz n harmony

Donnie darko, troy, halloween, braveheart, terminator, batman begins, dark knight, dark knight rises, tombstone, the departed, the town, sucker punch, hackers, sandlot, gladiator, rocky, star wars, kill bill, underworld

Ancient Aliens, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The following, finding bigfoot, river monsters, 30 for 30, American horror story, nfl live, fantasy football now

Stephen King
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Try not to think in these terms, sweating it out is a must, cardio keeps me sane. Time to myself.

Golf, Japanese Steel, tattoos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bettering myself and my life, how to find peace, how awesome zombie apocalypse would be (except who would mow my golf courses? Damn)

The difficult answers to simple questions.

What motivates me and why?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Golfing followed by Netflix...ok there may or may not be some Call of Duty in there as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Prove to me you care and I will tell you anything
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're insane or your personality is similar to that of Tiffany from Silver Linings Playbook.

You're beautiful and have tremendous character.

Definitely if I message you. You won't regret it. Entertaining conversation at least I guarantee it. Any topics welcome.