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stephanaloha

60 Sedona, AZ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Okay), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm bright, open, awake, and I love the magic of connecting with people and animals at a soul level. I am passionate about co-creating relationships that brings more joy, fun, adventure, light, and love to my world... and others!

I LOVE TO PLAY AND EXPLORE...

I believe in relationships based on authenticity, sovereign dignity, desire to see each other from a soul perspective, and playfulness... not ownership, and control. Neither of us are the jealous type, and both of us a free to continue to enjoying friendships with the both genders.

I am on here to find magical connections where we can inspire new friendships and maybe more in this adventure called life.

A few thought about our great relationship...
Self love, confidence and shining our own soul song is attractive and sexy. We get that no one is better or more valuable as everyone has their own unique traits and traps. We each go inside and find our own greatness and truth, and we are both looking to be with someone that makes us feel good about ourselves when we are being our self. Our natural compatibility, and passionate chemistry makes everything flow in a most enchanted way.

We understand and practice the simple basics of Non-Violent Communication as we seek to listen and understand to each others first. We share from a place of touching our own authentic emotions and feelings, so we can get to our genuine needs and wants. We practice honoring our own soul be asking for what we need, and allow each other to find their own authentic responses.

We each have decided that if I want to be able to express our own joy, truth, and sing the song we came to sing in this world, we have to be willing to let every other person have the same freedom. Of course, we each always have the freedom to choose our authentic action in response to any situation for both safety and joy:)

As a man I am getting good at holding a clear space of all potentiality for others. I absolutely love and adore the feminine nature.

As a woman you am getting good at seeing, embracing, and expressing the essence of your soul. You absolutely love and adore the masculine nature.

We each embrace our brilliance and genius, and our retardedness. Don't laugh, this helps us each love others retardedness as well ;)

If either of us cry, it is because something is touching our hearts at a deep level. It is not a sign of weakness. Our words are intended to help, and heal, but sometimes either of us might miss that mark, we treasure those moments of exposure as an opportunity to grow in love.

We have each discovered deep self-love and we love to be seen at an authentic level... and give this gift to others. Our relationship is about both feeling loved, honored, and seen at a profound level.

We don't need to lie to each other, because each of us is willing to hear, and seek to understand your truth... what ever it is. This is a gift we give to each other.

We don't need to be worried that we might break each others heart, because we both know the secret to living with an open heart... the secret is that everyones heart can process any and all emotions with a still mind, and deep breathing. No need for walls!

We are ready to co-create a magical connections with all others.

We are mentally and emotionally flexible, FUN, and we love this adventure called life. Our bodies are valued, healthy, vibrant and have their own great intuition which check into often.

ABOUT MY PRE-YOU LIFE:
I love children and I am a proud father of 3 adult children and one 16 yr old son who currently lives with his mom (joint custody). A MacGyver at heart, love to fix, build, design, dream, and encourage, educate and inspire others, Fluent in all trades construction, 25 year Computer Consultant and Service Tech, Web Developer, IBM sales trained. Have always been self employed, Entrepreneur/Business Starter, a professional off road motorcycle racer at 21, a Calvary Chapel Pastor at 30, owned and managed a 3000 sq ft. retail computer store in Northern California for 10 years, was on the Lassen County Chamber of Commerce Board, Featured in a national Computer Dealership Trade Magazine, can juggle 3 Apples and eat one at the same time, was a great fencer. Play a mean mini golf and want to play tennis again. LOVES TROPICAL and would like to live in Kauai again, currently living in Sedona. Love to enjoy the magic of connecting with others, searching for my own truths, and probing the mysteries of the the universe, and making the world more beautiful. travel, find adventure and being in nature.

MY CURRENT WORK PASSION:
My passion is to bring soul authenticity, and self love to the masses, so am passionately developing and promoting a software app called Sophia's MIRROR, mirror of ancient technology powerful enough to create a personal reflection that brings it's viewer into the presence of their Divine soul and life purpose. Some to gentle soul tears of remembrance, some to joy in seeing their perfection and casting off the guilt and shame of being broken. I need help getting this to the masses. see it at www.sophiasmirror.com

I have just completed live testing of 5000 soul purpose readings and it is accurately answering the two most important questions in life... "Who am I?" and "What am I doing here?". I am currently developing ver 2.0 to bring this knowledge to the masses and help shift the world to a kinder and safer place for all. I see a future world where each person is alive and awake, and passionately doing what they came to this planet to do. see www.sophiasmirror.com and read some of my client comment to understand my heart better.

I have built many homes and want to build another with my partner... maybe it will be a Tropical tree house in Kauai. I dream of living light in multiple locations on the globe... evolving and growing, and experiencing a deep a true love partnership with the love of my life.

Books:
The Way of the Superior Man, I self studied the Bible for over 25 years, The Keys of Enoch, Enlightened Sex, and the one I'm currently teaching and writing about personal empowerment, authenticity, sacred sexuality, and the joining of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine.

Movies:
Rush, Illusionist, All Marx Bothers, The Matrix(1st), The Notebook, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, THRIVE, The Gods Must Be Crazy I and II, You've Got Mail!, Autumn in New York, Sci-fi and romantic comedies. Movies are best when shared with popcorn and great snuggles.

Music:
Wide tastes... I also like old Motown and anything fun to dance too.

Food:
I love Indian, Chinese, Italian, Mexican, and I eat mostly healthy, really listen to my body, no allergies... just not too spicy:)

Thank you for bringing your genius and light to the party!!!
Stephan Coutts (FB)
www.crystallineage.com

PS I you are the editor type... then let's not waste all that wonderful talent! Any and all profile input is appreciate:)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating wonderful mythos from my soul center, discovering, and expressing my hero within, preparing my heart for the love of my life, having fun dating, creating an app that can bring easy self-realization to the other 7 Billion people on this planet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... loving myself, growing, and being soul authentic.
... seeing others at a deep soul level, and helping them fall deeply in love with themselves.
... teasing my mate to perfection;)
... sensual and intuitive lover.
... as a father of 4, I love kids, and would even consider being in a relationship with a Goddess with a small child. How brave is that?
... creativity and communication, and poetry.
... spontaneity, in the moment, and enjoying travel and adventure.
... considerate, co-operative.
... observing myself, and making adjustments.
... slaying Dragons, juggling things, and being a FUN Wizard.
... computers, 30 years in the field.
... making the world a brighter place.
... technology, creativity, and intelligent communication.
... My Venus is in Pisces (google it;)
... A girlfriend on Kauai kept calling me a badass 'cause I can build or fix almost anything, although I don't see myself as badass, but I do love to help others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bright spirit, open, kind and nurturing, athletic, playful, easy to talk with, and my inner child is alive and well;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Way of the Superior Man, 25 yrs self study of the Bible, The Book of Knowledge the Keys of Enoch, The Jewish Bible, Enlightened Sex.

Movies: Autum Rush, Illusionist, All Marx Bothers, The Matrix(1st),
The Notebook, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, The Gods Must Be Crazy I and II, You've Got Mail!, Autumn in New York, Sci-fi and romantic comedies.

Music: I Love to DANCE!!! So anything fun to dance too...

Food: Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, and I eat mostly healthy, listen to my body, no allergies... not too spicy:)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In my journey I have discovered that almost all the things I thought I couldn't live without actually blocked real life and that the only thing I can't live without is a deep self-love of my own soul, and the opportunity to expressing it with others. Everything else I have learned to hold loosely and experience the richness of each moment.

Here's my "wouldn't want to do without list" :
Toothbrush (preferably my own;)
iPAD with Verizon connection... we're joined at the hip (hey, I am becoming the person my iPAD thinks I am;)
Watching my 4 children experience life and express their soul essence!
Laughing and smiling children:)))
Tropical Islands, I'm exploring Sedona for now.
Friendship, sharing daily adventure and intimate exploration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
After doing my time in religious and cultural dogmas... I've now started my own religion called Authenticianity. It's about seeing my own Divine soul, embracing it, and awakening each day to express my gifts and talents in the service of others.

...shifting of this planet from fear and frustration to self-knowledge and self-love, harmony and cooperation.

...I see a world where each person is empowered to experience the freedom and joy that comes from being fully alive and doing what they came here to do.

...I seek ways to help each person on the planet to know that they are perfect and Divine just the way they are! And the world needs them to be true to themselves and sing their song, and dance their dance!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? LOL
Who writes this stuff anyway?
Under the star in my hammock, DANCING!, Live music, PJ Party, Netflix, Good food. good friends, Tantric training, hiking, mutually satisfying connection is always savored.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a Naive Brilliant)
Na·ive [nah-eev]
–adjective
1. having or showing unaffected simplicity of nature or unsophisticated; ingenuous.

Bril·liant adjective \ˈbril-yənt\
1. very bright : flashing with light
2. very impressive or successful
3. extremely intelligent : much more intelligent than most people
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you have already involved in your own self discovery and love who you are, or would like to meet a friend that will cheer you on to find and shine your own song.

May you find a deep love with the beloved, who is you, and someone very special to co-create an amazing life with,
Stephan

PS If you are the editor type... then let's not waste all that talent! Any profile input is appreciated:)