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59 M Sedona, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We are all souls incarnate... each amazingly designed to be a gift to our world... and life is a personal journey to see, embrace, and express our unique soul essence.

I see myself as a gift to this world to help bring Divine balance back to our world through uplifting, educating and inspiring the Divine Feminine. To me it is the wisdom that is needed in our world today.

I have no perspective of being "perfect" or "greater than" anyone else, I just know my own essence and purpose, and I love to help others find theirs.

If you are looking for guy... who is capable of co-creating new heights in loving relationship, a authentic, bright, confident, caring. A playful guy who can laugh at himself as he creates run on sentences, looks forwarding to teasing you to perfection, and laugh at himself, and wants to dream and together make a even better world... then quick email me at and say hi and let's invest a quick couple of minutes to see if there is a connecting worth investing more.

I'm of the opinion and experience that dating is an exciting journey, not a criminal lineup:)

I am a FUN Renaissance man of diverse experiences and talents. I know how to make a women feel great about herself. (Yes, it's about... YOU!)

I am here to be someones reflection of love and admiration, a man who knows how to create that wonderful feeling of love and enchantment. I am a lover of the Feminine Divine, and stay in my Masculine.

I don't live in single culturally themed box like jock, adventurer, romantic, spiritual leader, business man, visionary, etc.

I believe that deep natural compatibility + true self-love + authenticity + sovereignty = An amazing relationship that needs no rules, just opportunities to co-create moments and memories.

Even though I am fluent in many ancient knowledge systems... It's hard to know the alchemy thing until I meet someone in person. If you meet me, you will feel seen at a deep level, which will cause you to know and love yourself at an even deeper level. I know who I am.

Here is a few thoughts and a couple of testimonies about me.

"If you have chosen to listen to the voice of your parents, teachers, religion and culture and denied the voice of your own Soul... then that is your own damm fault you have missed so many great experiences in life. Don't panic! Just know there is still time for you to begin the great journey to find and express your true you." Stephan

Staff Pick Psychic at California Psychics
"As a professional psychic I am blown away with the amazing gifts shown by Stephan. He was the best gift I could have ever received for my 50th Birthday. He has an amazing way of showing you how to love and honor yourself. Namaste Stephan I am blown away!!!"

If you still would like to meet me... let's do tea in Sedona.

Wishing everyone on here will find their truelove, first with themselves, and then with the partner of their dreams.
Soul Coach and Visionary
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm asking you some questions;)

What is the greatest gift you give to your world?

What do you do that feels honoring to your heart?

Have you ever cried for joy? What happened?

If you could give ANY present to your beloved, what gift would you give?

Ask me any question? It's only fair;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... loving myself, growing, and being me!
... teasing my mate to perfection;)
... being a loving father, I love kids, and would even consider being in a relationship with a Goddess with small child(ren:)
... creativity and communication, and poetry.
... spontaneity, in the moment, and enjoying travel and adventure.
... seeing others at a deep Soul level, and helping them fall deeply in love with themselves.
... hugging, kissing and intuitive touch.
... observing myself, and making adjustments.
... slaying Dragons, juggling things, and being a great Wizard.
... computers, 30 years in the field.
... Making the World a brighter place.
... technology, creativity, and intelligent communication.
... My Venus is in Pisces (google it;)
... A girl friend on Kauai kept calling me a badass 'cause I can build or fix almost anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bright spirit, open, kind and nurturing, handsome;) athletic, playful, easy to talk with, and my inner child is alive and well;)

A funny note: A recent date, said she was surprised that I was humble... LOL :)))
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Way of the Superior Man, Bill Cosby Fatherhood, The Book of Knowledge the Keys of Enoch, The Jewish Bible, Enlightened Sex.

Movies: Autum Rush, Illusionist, All Marx Bothers, The Matrix(1st),
The Notebook, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, The Gods Must Be Crazy I and II, You've Got Mail!, Autumn in New York, Sci-fi and romantic comedies.

Music: I Love to DANCE!!! So anything fun to dance too...

Food: Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, and I eat mostly healthy, listen to my body, no allergies... not too spicy:)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In my journey I have discovered that almost all the things I thought I couldn't live without actually blocked real life and that the only thing I can't live without is a deep self-love of my own soul and the opportunity to expressing it with others. Everything else I have learned to hold loosely and experience the richness of each moment.

Here's my "wouldn't want to do without list" :
Toothbrush (preferably my own;)
iPAD with Verizon connection... we're joined at the hip (hey, I am becoming the person my iPAD thinks I am;)
Watching my 4 children experience life and express their soul essence!
Laughing and smiling children:)))
Tropical Islands and exploring Sedona for now.
Friendship, sharing daily adventure and intimate exploration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...shifting of this planet from fear and frustration to self-knowledge and self-love, harmony and cooperation.

...I see a world where each person is empowered to experience the freedom and joy that comes from being fully alive and doing what they came here to do.

...I seek ways to help each person on the planet to know that they are perfect and Divine just the way they are! And the world needs them to be true to themselves and sing their song, and dance their dance!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? LOL
Who writes this stuff anyway?
Under the star in my hammock, DANCING!, Live music, PJ Party, Netflix, Good food. good friends, Tantric training, hiking, mutually satisfying connection is always savored.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a Naive Brilliant)
Na·ive [nah-eev]
1. having or showing unaffected simplicity of nature or unsophisticated; ingenuous.

Bril·liant adjective \ˈbril-yənt\
1. very bright : flashing with light
2. very impressive or successful
3. extremely intelligent : much more intelligent than most people
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you are interested in sharing your creative responses to the questions I asked above. (extra points for radical honesty)

... you have already involved in your own self discovery and really love who you are.

May you find a deep love with your true beloved, who is YOU, and someone special to co-create an amazing life with, Stephan

PS If you are the editor type... then let's not waste all that talent! Any profile input is appreciated:)