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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:16pm
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and it’s important
Has kids and might want more
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Somewhat), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm bright, open, awake, and alive... looking for the same.

Modern dating should be an amazing experience of Soul authentic Human communication and shared experiences, not about people on-line anonymously and deceptively typing mindless cultural activities and values into little text boxes.

As a man,
* It IS my responsibility to know who I am at a Soul level.
* It IS my responsibility to be true to my values.
* It IS my responsibility to be diligent to give my best and greatest gifts to my world.
* It IS my pleasure to honor my own heart and Soul, and share its abundance with my world.
* It IS my pleasure to create and hold safe and clear space of all potentiality for others in my world to express their truest expression of themselves.
* It IS my desire to make my world a more beautiful place, and not leave messes (physical, emotional, etc.) for others to have to clean up.
* It IS my desire to uplift, educate, and inspire others every chance I get.
* It IS my destiny to be centered, focused, confident, purposeful, and stand up in front of the world and claim what I am here to do.

* It is NOT my responsibility to love anyone just as they are and take on their unresolved shit, because I have a responsibility to honor and love myself first.
* It is NOT my responsibility to love others un-conditionally, because to me love is a free will choice never an obligation.
* It is NOT my desire to be anyones trash can, scapegoat, or savior in any shape or form.
* It is NOT my destiny to compromise my own Soul to please anyone, and cultural standards, or any Deity.
* It is NOT my responsibility to fix you, complete, or make you whole, because each of needs to do our own inner work, and co-dependent / attachment based relationship are not a good model for healthy Human relationships.

We might be a match if you truly love yourself, think authenticity is a great way to live, and you're interested in creating a profound relational experience that is both safe, empowering, exciting and FUN!

I wish you all the love and life that you seeks,
Stephan 3

PS please know that we are not a romantic match if you need alcohol or meds to function, think relationship is not personal ownership, control, or co-dependent attachments. If you think you are nothing without your (pick one) God, money, possessions, or status. And remember, just because the people around you think this same way doesn't mean your not in a cult. FOR HUMANITIES SAKE, GET HELP AND GET FREE.

PSS Since we all want a great loving partner, and they seem to be in short supply... so I would like to propose a solution. Let's all start practicing to be one today and start dating and learning about how to give our best love the magic of connecting with people. I am passionate about co-creating relationship(s) that brings more joy, fun, adventure, light, and love to the world!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating wonderful mythos from my soul center, discovering, and expressing my hero within, preparing my heart for the love of my life, having fun dating, creating an app that can bring easy self-realization to the other 7 Billion people on this planet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... loving myself, growing, and being soul authentic.
... seeing others at a deep soul level, and helping them fall deeply in love with themselves.
... teasing my mate to perfection;)
... sensual and intuitive lover.
... as a father of 4, I love kids, and would even consider being in a relationship with a Goddess with a small child. How brave is that?
... creativity and communication, and poetry.
... spontaneity, in the moment, and enjoying travel and adventure.
... considerate, co-operative.
... observing myself, and making adjustments.
... slaying Dragons, juggling things, and being a FUN Wizard.
... computers, 30 years in the field.
... making the world a brighter place.
... technology, creativity, and intelligent communication.
... My Venus is in Pisces (google it;)
... A girlfriend on Kauai kept calling me a badass 'cause I can build or fix almost anything, although I don't see myself as badass, but I do love to help others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bright spirit, intuitive, brilliant intellect, open, kind and nurturing, athletic, playful, easy to talk with, and my inner child is alive and well;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Way of the Superior Man, 25 yrs self study of the Bible, The Book of Knowledge the Keys of Enoch, The Jewish Bible, Enlightened Sex.

Movies: Autum Rush, Illusionist, All Marx Bothers, The Matrix(1st),
The Notebook, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, The Gods Must Be Crazy I and II, You've Got Mail!, Autumn in New York, Sci-fi and romantic comedies.

Music: I Love to DANCE!!! So anything fun to dance too...

Food: Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, and I eat mostly healthy, listen to my body, no allergies... not too spicy:)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In my journey I have discovered that almost all the things I thought I couldn't live without actually blocked real life and that the only thing I can't live without is a deep self-love of my own soul, and the opportunity to expressing it with others. Everything else I have learned to hold loosely and experience the richness of each moment.

Here's my "wouldn't want to do without list" :
Toothbrush (preferably my own;)
iPAD with Verizon connection... we're joined at the hip (hey, I am becoming the person my iPAD thinks I am;)
Watching my 4 children experience life and express their soul essence!
Laughing and smiling children:)))
Tropical Islands, I'm exploring Sedona for now.
Friendship, sharing daily adventure and intimate exploration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
After doing my time in religious and cultural dogmas... I've now started my own religion called Authenticianity. It's about seeing my own Divine soul, embracing it, and awakening each day to express my gifts and talents in the service of others.

...shifting of this planet from fear and frustration to self-knowledge and self-love, harmony and cooperation.

...I see a world where each person is empowered to experience the freedom and joy that comes from being fully alive and doing what they came here to do.

...I seek ways to help each person on the planet to know that they are perfect and Divine just the way they are! And the world needs them to be true to themselves and sing their song, and dance their dance!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? LOL
Who writes this stuff anyway?
Under the star in my hammock, DANCING!, Live music, PJ Party, Netflix, Good food. good friends, Tantric training, hiking, mutually satisfying connection is always savored.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a Naive Brilliant)
Na·ive [nah-eev]
1. having or showing unaffected simplicity of nature or unsophisticated; ingenuous.

Bril·liant adjective \ˈbril-yənt\
1. very bright : flashing with light
2. very impressive or successful
3. extremely intelligent : much more intelligent than most people
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you have already involved in your own self discovery and love who you are, or would like to meet a friend that will cheer you on to find and shine your own song.

May you find a deep love with the beloved, who is you, and someone very special to co-create an amazing life with,

PS If you are the editor type... then let's not waste all that talent! Any profile input is appreciated:)