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stephanaloha

59 Sedona, AZ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:07am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Yes, I'm excited for this OKCupid opportunity to find a best friend, a equal adventurer, and a sacred intimacy partner, Let's co-create a mutual relationship that brings more joy, fun, adventure, light, and love to our world... and those around us.

I have learned to love and express my soul-self. This means I am ready for for someone appear in my life and fit so well that I will finally understand why it never worked out with anyone else. In that day, our tears of joy will wash any remaining years of pain, story away.

Your self love is attractive and sexy, and you get that no one is better than another. You get that everyone is valuable, and has unique traits and traps. You have been going inside to find your own greatness within, and you and I are both looking to be with someone that makes us feel good about ourselves when we are being our self. Our natural compatibility, and passionate chemistry makes everything flow in a most enchanted way.

We understand and practice the basics of Non-Violent Communication as we seek to listen and understand to each others first. We share from a place of touching our own authentic emotions and feelings, so we can get to our genuine needs and wants. We practicen honoring our own soul be asking for what we need, and allow each other to find their own authentic responses.

A while back I decided that if I wanted to be able to express my joy, truth, and sing the song I came to sing in this world, I have to be willing to let every other person have the same freedom. Of course, I alway have my freedom to choose my authentic action in response:)

As a man I am getting good at holding a clear space of all potentiality for others. I absolutely love and adore the Feminine.

I embrace my brilliance and genius, and I'm working on loving my retardedness. Don't laugh, this helps me love yours too;)

If I cry, my tears are a sign of my strength, not weakness. My words are intended to help, and heal, but sometimes I miss that mark. I treasure those moments of exposure too.

I have discovered deep self-love and I love to be seen at an authentic level... I love to give this same gift to others. If you are lucky to be in a relationship with me you will feel loved and seen at a profound level.

You don't need to lie to me, because I am willing to hear, and seek to understand your truth... what ever it is. I hope you can do the same with me.

You don't need to be worried that you might break my heart, because I know the secret to living with an open heart, My heart can process any and all emotions with a still mind, and deep breathing. No need for walls!

I am ready to co-create a magical connection with my equal.

I am mentally and emotionally very flexible, FUN, and I love adventure. My body is healthy, vibrant and very intuitive.

Altruism is a big part of my core wiring, so is respect and being considerate of others. Mean is not something I personally value or choose to be around.

Sometimes I wear tool belts and fix or build stuff. I have designed and built complete homes, I'm fluent in all construction trades. Bad ass huh?

I enjoy sacred sexuality. I find great pleasure in the context of a mutually safe, exciting, playful expression, and romance, Passion from my Aries side. Deep sensuality from Pisces in Venus (google it;)

My goal in my life is love, and being able to share this journey with another.

A little about my "this" life time:)

I love children and I am a proud father of 3 adult children and one 14 yr old son who currently lives with his mom / joint custody. A MacGyver at heart, love to fix, build, design, dream, and encourage, educate and inspire others, Fluent in all trades construction, 25 year Computer Consultant and Service Tech, Web Developer, IBM sales trained. Have always been self employed, Entrepreneur/Business Starter, a professional off road motorcycle racer at 21, a Calvary Chapel Pastor at 30, owned and managed a 3000 sq ft. retail computer store in Northern California for 10 years, was on the Lassen County Chamber of Commerce Board, Featured in a national Computer Dealership Trade Magazine, can juggle 3 Apples and eat one at the same time, was a great fencer. Plays a mean mini golf and wants to play tennis again. LOVES TROPICAL and wants to live in Kauaiagain. Love travel, adventure and being in nature with my best friend and lover.

WORK:
I am passionately developing and promoting a software app called Sophia's MIRROR. A mirror of ancient technology so powerful, that it's reflection bring it's viewer into the presence of their Divine soul and life purpose. Some to gentle soul tears of remembrance, some to joy in seeing their perfection and casting off the guilt and shame of being broken.

I have just completed live testing of 4500 Soul Purpose Readings and it accurately answers the two most important questions in life... "Who am I?" and "What am I doing here?". I am currently developing ver 2.0 to bring this knowledge to the masses and help shift the world to a kinder and safer place for all. I see a future world where each person is alive and awake and passionately doing what they come to this planet to do. If I do my part right you just might be reading about me in the news someday.

I have built many homes and want to build another with my partner... maybe it will be a Tropical tree house in Kauai. I dream of living in multiple locations on the globe... evolving and growing, and experiencing a deep a true love partnership with the love of my life.

Books:
The Way of the Superior Man, Yes, I self studied the Bible for over 25 years, The Book of Knowledge the Keys of Enoch, Enlightened Sex, and the one I'm writing about sacred sexuality, the joining of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine..

Movies:
Rush, Illusionist, All Marx Bothers, The Matrix(1st), The Notebook, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, THRIVE, The Gods Must Be Crazy I and II, You've Got Mail!, Autumn in New York, Sci-fi and romatntic comedies. Movies are best when shared with popcorn and great snuggles.

Music:
Wide tastes... I also like Stevie Wonder, The Beatles, Michael Jackson, Marvin Gaye, Motown Records and anything fun to dance too.

Food:
I love Chinese, Itallian, Mexican, and I eat mostly healthy, really listen to my body, no allergies... just not too spicy:)

May all of your heart's desires come true,
If you feel, think or know that we might be a match... call or write and say hi:)

By Divine design,
Stephan Coutts (FB)
www.trueloveinstitute.com/mirror

PS I you are the editor type... then let's not waste all that talent! Any and all profile input is appreciate:)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating wonderful mythos from my soul center, discovering, and expressing my hero within, preparing my heart for the love of my life, having fun dating, creating an app that can bring easy self-realization to the other 7 Billion people on this planet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... loving myself, growing, and being me!
... seeing others at a deep soul level, and helping them fall deeply in love with themselves.
... teasing my mate to perfection;)
... amazing intuitive lover.
... being a loving father, I love kids, and would even consider being in a relationship with a Goddess with a small child.
... creativity and communication, and poetry.
... spontaneity, in the moment, and enjoying travel and adventure.
... hugging, kissing and intuitive touch.
... observing myself, and making adjustments.
... slaying Dragons, juggling things, and being a great Wizard.
... computers, 30 years in the field.
... Making the World a brighter place.
... technology, creativity, and intelligent communication.
... My Venus is in Pisces (google it;)
... A girlfriend on Kauai kept calling me a badass 'cause I can build or fix almost anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bright spirit, open, kind and nurturing, handsome;) athletic, playful, easy to talk with, and my inner child is alive and well;)

A funny note: A recent date, said she was surprised that I was humble... LOL :)))
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Way of the Superior Man, 25 yrs self study of the Bible, The Book of Knowledge the Keys of Enoch, The Jewish Bible, Enlightened Sex.

Movies: Autum Rush, Illusionist, All Marx Bothers, The Matrix(1st),
The Notebook, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, The Gods Must Be Crazy I and II, You've Got Mail!, Autumn in New York, Sci-fi and romantic comedies.

Music: I Love to DANCE!!! So anything fun to dance too...

Food: Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, and I eat mostly healthy, listen to my body, no allergies... not too spicy:)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In my journey I have discovered that almost all the things I thought I couldn't live without actually blocked real life and that the only thing I can't live without is a deep self-love of my own soul, and the opportunity to expressing it with others. Everything else I have learned to hold loosely and experience the richness of each moment.

Here's my "wouldn't want to do without list" :
Toothbrush (preferably my own;)
iPAD with Verizon connection... we're joined at the hip (hey, I am becoming the person my iPAD thinks I am;)
Watching my 4 children experience life and express their soul essence!
Laughing and smiling children:)))
Tropical Islands, I'm exploring Sedona for now.
Friendship, sharing daily adventure and intimate exploration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
After doing my time in religious and cultural dogmas... I've now started my own religion called Authenticianity. It's about seeing my own Divine soul, embracing it, and awakening each day to express my gifts and talents in the service of others.

...shifting of this planet from fear and frustration to self-knowledge and self-love, harmony and cooperation.

...I see a world where each person is empowered to experience the freedom and joy that comes from being fully alive and doing what they came here to do.

...I seek ways to help each person on the planet to know that they are perfect and Divine just the way they are! And the world needs them to be true to themselves and sing their song, and dance their dance!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? LOL
Who writes this stuff anyway?
Under the star in my hammock, DANCING!, Live music, PJ Party, Netflix, Good food. good friends, Tantric training, hiking, mutually satisfying connection is always savored.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a Naive Brilliant)
Na·ive [nah-eev]
–adjective
1. having or showing unaffected simplicity of nature or unsophisticated; ingenuous.

Bril·liant adjective \ˈbril-yənt\
1. very bright : flashing with light
2. very impressive or successful
3. extremely intelligent : much more intelligent than most people
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you have already involved in your own self discovery and really love who you are.

May you find a deep love with your true beloved, who is YOU, and someone special to co-create an amazing life with,
Stephan

PS If you are the editor type... then let's not waste all that talent! Any profile input is appreciated:)