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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23-40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 21
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey guys. 36 yo professional guy in Center City (Wash West), Philadelphia. I'm a Penn State University grad. Checking out OK Cupid after a friend mentioned it. Hoping to find some nice guys here. As for those nice guys, I'm open to any number of possibilities with the ideal situation and ultimate goal being a relationship.

I am witty, friendly, and random
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently an project manager for an international logistics firm. I do volunteer work and community activism in spare time
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using computers, making decisions, Getting to the root cause of issues, talking (see the "contact me if" section).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, my smile & my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently Loving True Blood, V, Glee, hmm... I'm sure there's more.. Also enjoy fiction crime novelist James Patterson, among others. Somewhat of a Trekker (no conventions or costumes though, don't worry.). This new AMC show Rubicon has promise - anyone else watching it?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
By no means a perfect list and in no particular order...

(Except perhaps the first two)

1. My friends & Family
2. Modern Plumbing (this also implies shelter)
3. Social Activities - the life of a hermit suits me not
4. Learning - I'm always wondering how things work and whether I accomplish knowing that by conversation, looking things up or watching the Discovery channel I think I'd miss it if I didn't have the opportunity.
5. A computer (preferably Mac) and The Internet - before you berate me... think about it -- when's the last time you grabbed an actual phone book or map?
6. Telephone

5 years ago "Car" would have made this list, but I've since given up my fossil fuel burning ways and am now happy being a pedestrian/transit rider/car sharer. This does not mean I love SEPTA though. I merely tolerate it. ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing one of a few things.

1. with friends... getting into some kind of harmless trouble.
(sometimes quizzo, sometimes bar hopping, sometimes just playing cards with a few drinks)

2. relaxing because it's been a tough week. this means some dinner, maybe a little wine & a date with my TiVo.

3. heading off somewhere for the weekend - perhaps a visit to my parents or to visit friends in a nearby city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't cook to save my life. Seriously... Lean Cuisine and Wawa are my saviors.
You should message me if
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Please drop me a message or IM (SuddenlyStephen) if any of this profile sounds interesting or if you have questions.

I am much more of a conversationalist than an essay writer so if you'd like to talk hit me up!

I look forward to hearing from you. :-)