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stephensona229

28 M Royal Oak, MI

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:06am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What makes me unique? That's probabaly my best selling point. I'm a 6'3" Scotish Korean. Yeah... probabaly one of the best hybrids out there. I have a great sense of humor, I laugh at everything. I'm laid back and very amiable, I get along with everyone. I'm EXTREMELY thoughtful which makes me an excellent gift giver. I'm romantic and chivalrous, adventurous and outgoing. I can cook food when you think we have nothing to eat. I am a pro at making myself laugh. I am a big supporter of compliments. I rock at hugs. It's probabaly due to my arm span which according to Potter Park Zoo is about the size of an Albatross'. It gives the person the feeling "Yea... I'm safe from everything now"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My career goal is honestly undecided. I graduated at MSU with a Food Industry Management degree, decided not to purchase my family restaurant business, and instead pursued a now ex to Michigan and snagged a management job with Walgreens. Don't get me wrong I love my job, I do just fine, but I don't even know if in another year I'll get bored and find something else. To be honest my goal is pretty much to live a great life filled with memorable experiences. This includes trying new things, traveling, and just being a good person. My goal is to find those qualities in another person. I've never done a bad job and I work hard so if it's money I need, I'll get it. I know what I'm capable of so a job is the least of my concerns. I'm happy in whatever I do and I have a lot of pride so I always do the best I can. I would rather focus on something that's mostly out of my control... finding you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out a person. - I was able to order a 4 course meal and wine choice for someone and get everything exact.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm not as Asian looking as my photos let on. My eyes squint when I smile, and naturally I smile in pictures. I guess someone could capture me in a moment of sadness but that's like finding a unicorn.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am pretty competitive, so the hobbies I have generally involve some sort of competition. Even if it's not supposed to be competitive. So if you and I are hiking, without telling you, I will be thinking "we're racing". This includes competition with random people on a treadmill in the gym so Its not all bad haha. Basketball, watching movies, guitar, piano are a few to name. No, I'm not a very big reader but if you hand me a book I'll read it. Which is unusual because as I kid I read a TON, which gratefully has left me pretty well rounded.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) Brain
2.) Heart
3.) Liver
4.) Family
5.) Cheese
6.) Penis

If you laughed at number 6. We are off to a good start. If you were grossed out, you're just another lame person. If you were grossed out but laughed too, you're normal.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random things. I wondered where the term Jumping Jeosephat came from and looked it up. I thought about how the "call me maybe" song by What's her face, would be totally different if the girls name was actually "Maybe"... Like her name is Maybelline and people call her Maybe for short. I think about ways to improve things, solve problems, have the "It would be so awesome if ____" scenarios and a lot of other things.

Just now I read a girls profile that says that she's looking for a guy who's active. I couldn't help but think "she means not fat"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Saving money for my next big adventure or a different friday night where I can now spend double.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There really isn't anything I'm not willing to admit. On a first date, I asked an uncomfortable question of what her most embarrassing moment was, and she then fired back the question have I ever tucked it to see what I would look like without my man hood. I laughed and admitted I have. "Would you fuck me?... I'd fuck me" if you get that reference you're cool in my book.

Just wanted to add that today Livin La Vida Loca was on the radio. I made the conscious decision to not change it... I'm just that manly haha
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you want to actually put in effort. I take a lot of time to write multiple paragraphs to many girls, often with no reward. So write me at least a paragraph if you're contacting me for the first time or if you're replying back.

-you want to actually meet. I don't like this site at all. I'm a people person. I don't even text my parents more than a few words bi-weekly. Naturally having to communicate through lengthy meaningful messages is rough on everyone's time. If I had it my way we would meet as soon as we established mental stability and mutual interest. When I say mental stability I mean you're not crazy with 10 cats who watched her parents kill her goldfish for not putting away her barbies. (This isn't personal experience that's just something I thought up. Could you imagine though?!)

-you are straight forward. I have no trouble saying when I'm not interested. Many times messages go on for a while and end up no where. Out of respect let me know if you're no longer in too. Hell I'll make it even easier for you. Type back Pineapple. No questions asked haha.

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Something I stumbled upon and had a deep thought into...

Ever heard of Pareto's 80/20 Principle? It's named after an Italian economist who observed in 1906 that 80% of the land in Italy was owned by 20% of the population. In essence the principle states that, for many events, roughly 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes.

-Using this I can say that out of the 80% of men that message you, 20% actually want an actual relationship. Every 10 messages 1.6 want to date you

-Out of the 80% of women who read my messages, only 20% will reply. 10 messages sent out, 1.6 will reply.

-80 percent of the time it works, everytime. :)