stereofading
31 / m / straight / single
Murfreesboro, Tennessee, United States
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white, brown, and blue
My self-summary Propose an edit
OKC SCOREBOARD: updated 28Jul08
Dates with different people = 3
Disasters = 1
Friendships = too many to list
Fathering proposals = 1
Marriage proposals = 1
Meaningful relationships = 3
Meals I've ruined for people = 1
Profile molestations by awesome people = 3
I was on my own just after I turned 17. I was the only kid in
highschool living in a house with no parents. (I rented with
another 3 people in their mid-late 20s. I got just about ALL of my
binge drinking out of my system back then. Since I was the only kid
with a house there was a party every night whether I was feeling up
to it or not :P. I remember riding my bike to my job hung over or
still drunk more than a few times.
Then I went into the army. I went to raves, I danced, I
experimented. I was wreckless. I used to rollerblade down the hills
of Monterey weaving in between traffic and blowing through busy
intersections with no way to stop. It was a rush, and injurious on
more than one occassion. I left my mark at DLI in Monterey, CA. I
had my tongue, my navel, both ears pierced, a tatoo on my leg, left
shoulder, and full back and still managed to look professional
everyday. In fact today my clients never suspect those odd things
about me. I don't have any of the piercings anymore, but the tats
are still there of course. I was one of the popular guys and sowed
my oats. I met my wife there and we were married and spent the next
two years apart.
I went to school for Audio Engineering at MTSU in Murfreesboro, TN
graduating Magna Cum Laude. I ended up continuing IT work instead
of going into audio because the money wasn't good enough to support
a family. I was content, but I wasn't "happy". Life happened and I
did what I was supposed to do.
Fast-forward to now. I am divorced through no real fault of my own.
We just both decided it would be best for our daughter and for us
to not be married.
Now I am suddenly back to the point I was 10 years ago. My crazy
streak is starting to come back. I am suddenly happy and not just
content with where I am. I am a bit too old for the clubs and raves
to be sure, but I am anxious to try something different that will
give me the same thrills of rushing into something that could end
disasterously!
I am a self-employed network
administrator/computer tech/web design guru. So yeah I am a geek
in my job :p.
I enjoy travel, but
don't have much time for it with my job,daughter. I spend my free time writing
poetry, trying to
compose music, though I still need a
good bit of work on the latter, and when I have my daughter,
playing with her.
I am not religious, though I would consider myself spiritual and if I had to
identify myself with a religion I would say that for the most part
I identify with buddhism.
I smile with my whole face when I am really happy. Sometimes I am
goofy. Sometimes I am brooding. Most of the time I am poking fun at
life and that often includes my friends :P.
When you go out with me, we will have a good time even if it doesn't end in a
match. I am looking for friends to hang out with and just chill
around Murfreesboro and Nashville.
For crazy fun you should take me matchme test
:).
^^originally I meant my matchme test, but I've decided to leave the
crazy lucky charms speak because it tickles me :P
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
Taking care of my daughter. Just trying to have fun while I can. Working, building my business. Trying to become more
mature by doing things that are completely immature.
Jobs I've done:
paperboy
car stereo installations
computer installations
dishwasher at Denny's
cart retriever at Fred Meyer
cashier at Fred Meyer
algae freeze drier
wildland fire fighter
cashier at EB games
waiter at Applebee's
russian linguist Army
line painter for striping company
mattress salesman
bartender
computer analyst Army reserves
officer candidate TN National Guard
workstation tech SSR
network admin SSR
sysadmin SOHO
web dev Junkie
Solutions
tech
services Junkie Solutions
TAMISAN
worshipper
tofurkyloaf
worshipper (I want in on this too! :D)
yeah I have done a lot :P
I'm really good at Propose an edit
poetry, laughing, making others
smile, my job, being a father, laughing at myself, laughing at
other people's expense, tieing one on, breathing deeply, swimming,
eating hot wings, entertaining myself with random thoughts, doing
errands like I am on a timed scavenger hunt, ignoring clutter on my
desk, finding the irony/humor in anything, singing in really low
ranges, being critical of myself and taking criticism (actually i
encourage it :P), living beyond my means(not really financially),
making new friends, losing touch with old ones :(, driving, chinese
checkers, research, caring, seeing into the heart of it all.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
eyes, smile, heart, physique, laid-back attitude, deep voice, complete lack of tact
whenever the most appropriate situation demands it.
I am 3' tall if you measure me from my waist in either direction.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
Books: Way of the Peaceful
Warrior, Taking the Red Pill,
Beyond
Good and Evil, Noone Here Gets Out
Alive.
Movies: Castaway,
Band of
Brothers, Amelie, Donnie Darko, 300, a ton of others.
Music: NIN, Tool, The Roots, Kanye West, Johnny Cash, Thelonius Monk, John Coltrane,
Orb, Moby, Gavin DeGraw(yeah I know :P guilty
pleasures). Anything that rocks and has a beat you can dance or
just go nuts to.
I know my music
is all over the place :P
Food: Mexican,
Blue Coast
Burrito/Baja
Burrito, Hamburgers,
Moonspeed's Salsa!!
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
daughter(I know
someday I'll have to), pencil(you may not need it, but I need to be
able to erase), paper, music/guitar, friends, TAMISAN
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
What the hell I am going to do today. Boredom strikes at the oddest
times. I hate going to sleep and I will end up in these forums or
doing something other that is mundane.
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
grabbing a
beer, with
friends, working so I'll have money for when
TAMISAN comes
to visit, now I seem to be doing a lot of chatting online as well.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
I sometimes growl in certain situations. I know kinda weird :P. I
don't do it in public though :P. Not going to say when I growl til
I know you better so leave me alone til then :).
You should message me if Propose an edit
You can deal with someone that is brutally honest.
Want to have someone to measure all of your future okcupid meets
against :P
If you want to just have fun with a new person, or are just looking
for friends.
If you like life unfiltered.
My personality awards
Questions He Cares About View all
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- For someone who has agreed to an exclusive relationship, is it cheating to have cyber or phone sex with someone else?
- · Yes.
- · No.
- · Cyber sex is ok, but phone sex is cheating.
- · Phone sex is ok, but cyber sex is cheating.
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- Do you believe in monogamy?
- · Yes
- · No
- · I'm Not Sure
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- Do you take prevention of STD transmission seriously (making sure your partner has been tested, using protection, being upfront if you're at risk, etc.)?
- · Always
- · Usually
- · Sometimes
- · Rarely
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- Is there ANY excuse to cheat on someone you're in a serious relationship with?
- · Yes, there are some circumstances
- · No, never
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- Your perfect mate has an abundance of:
- · Heart
- · Money
- · Physique
- · Intellect








