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OKC SCOREBOARD: updated 28Jul08
Dates with different people = 3
Disasters = 1
Friendships = too many to list
Fathering proposals = 1
Marriage proposals = 1
Meaningful relationships = 3
Meals I've ruined for people = 1
Profile molestations by awesome people = 3

I was on my own just after I turned 17. I was the only kid in highschool living in a house with no parents. (I rented with another 3 people in their mid-late 20s. I got just about ALL of my binge drinking out of my system back then. Since I was the only kid with a house there was a party every night whether I was feeling up to it or not :P. I remember riding my bike to my job hung over or still drunk more than a few times.

Then I went into the army. I went to raves, I danced, I experimented. I was wreckless. I used to rollerblade down the hills of Monterey weaving in between traffic and blowing through busy intersections with no way to stop. It was a rush, and injurious on more than one occassion. I left my mark at DLI in Monterey, CA. I had my tongue, my navel, both ears pierced, a tatoo on my leg, left shoulder, and full back and still managed to look professional everyday. In fact today my clients never suspect those odd things about me. I don't have any of the piercings anymore, but the tats are still there of course. I was one of the popular guys and sowed my oats. I met my wife there and we were married and spent the next two years apart.

I went to school for Audio Engineering at MTSU in Murfreesboro, TN graduating Magna Cum Laude. I ended up continuing IT work instead of going into audio because the money wasn't good enough to support a family. I was content, but I wasn't "happy". Life happened and I did what I was supposed to do.

Fast-forward to now. I am divorced through no real fault of my own. We just both decided it would be best for our daughter and for us to not be married.

Now I am suddenly back to the point I was 10 years ago. My crazy streak is starting to come back. I am suddenly happy and not just content with where I am. I am a bit too old for the clubs and raves to be sure, but I am anxious to try something different that will give me the same thrills of rushing into something that could end disasterously!

I am a self-employed network administrator/computer tech/web design guru. So yeah I am a geek in my job :p.

I enjoy travel, but don't have much time for it with my job,daughter. I spend my free time writing poetry, trying to compose music, though I still need a good bit of work on the latter, and when I have my daughter, playing with her.

I am not religious, though I would consider myself spiritual and if I had to identify myself with a religion I would say that for the most part I identify with buddhism.

I smile with my whole face when I am really happy. Sometimes I am goofy. Sometimes I am brooding. Most of the time I am poking fun at life and that often includes my friends :P.

When you go out with me, we will have a good time even if it doesn't end in a match. I am looking for friends to hang out with and just chill around Murfreesboro and Nashville.

For crazy fun you should take me matchme test :).

^^originally I meant my matchme test, but I've decided to leave the crazy lucky charms speak because it tickles me :P

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Taking care of my daughter. Just trying to have fun while I can. Working, building my business. Trying to become more mature by doing things that are completely immature.

Jobs I've done:
paperboy
car stereo installations
computer installations
dishwasher at Denny's
cart retriever at Fred Meyer
cashier at Fred Meyer
algae freeze drier
wildland fire fighter
cashier at EB games
waiter at Applebee's
russian linguist Army
line painter for striping company
mattress salesman
bartender
computer analyst Army reserves
officer candidate TN National Guard
workstation tech SSR
network admin SSR
sysadmin SOHO
web dev Junkie Solutions
tech services Junkie Solutions
TAMISAN worshipper
tofurkyloaf worshipper (I want in on this too! :D)

yeah I have done a lot :P

I'm really good at Propose an edit

poetry, laughing, making others smile, my job, being a father, laughing at myself, laughing at other people's expense, tieing one on, breathing deeply, swimming, eating hot wings, entertaining myself with random thoughts, doing errands like I am on a timed scavenger hunt, ignoring clutter on my desk, finding the irony/humor in anything, singing in really low ranges, being critical of myself and taking criticism (actually i encourage it :P), living beyond my means(not really financially), making new friends, losing touch with old ones :(, driving, chinese checkers, research, caring, seeing into the heart of it all.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

eyes, smile, heart, physique, laid-back attitude, deep voice, complete lack of tact whenever the most appropriate situation demands it.

I am 3' tall if you measure me from my waist in either direction.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: Way of the Peaceful Warrior, Taking the Red Pill, Beyond Good and Evil, Noone Here Gets Out Alive.

Movies: Castaway, Band of Brothers, Amelie, Donnie Darko, 300, a ton of others.

Music: NIN, Tool, The Roots, Kanye West, Johnny Cash, Thelonius Monk, John Coltrane, Orb, Moby, Gavin DeGraw(yeah I know :P guilty pleasures). Anything that rocks and has a beat you can dance or just go nuts to.

I know my music is all over the place :P

Food: Mexican, Blue Coast Burrito/Baja Burrito, Hamburgers, Moonspeed's Salsa!!

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

daughter(I know someday I'll have to), pencil(you may not need it, but I need to be able to erase), paper, music/guitar, friends, TAMISAN

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

What the hell I am going to do today. Boredom strikes at the oddest times. I hate going to sleep and I will end up in these forums or doing something other that is mundane.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

grabbing a beer, with friends, working so I'll have money for when TAMISAN comes to visit, now I seem to be doing a lot of chatting online as well.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I sometimes growl in certain situations. I know kinda weird :P. I don't do it in public though :P. Not going to say when I growl til I know you better so leave me alone til then :).

You should message me if Propose an edit

You can deal with someone that is brutally honest. Want to have someone to measure all of your future okcupid meets against :P

If you want to just have fun with a new person, or are just looking for friends.

If you like life unfiltered.

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stereofading: 300 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
N/A
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
N/A
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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