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stereotype441
34 / M / straight / Seeing someone
Portland, Oregon
The Skinny
- Last Online
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- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 9" (1.75m).
- Body Type
- —
- Looking For
- New friends, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Agnosticism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- —
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Computer / Hardware / Software
- Income
- $80,000–$100,000
- Kids
- Doesn’t want children
- Pets
- Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am thoughtful, supportive, and quiet.
My Self-Summary
I appreciate computer games, but I will never play them again. Life is too short, and computer games are too time-consuming. Exception: Rock Band. Board games and mind puzzles, now that's a different story. I will happily while away an afternoon playing board games with friends.
I'm shy, but I like to live a fast-paced life full of people and activities--difficult combination there. In an ideal world I would write music and computer programs all day and hang out with friends every night. Chores like laundry and bills would take care of themselves by magic. In the real world I write computer programs all day, write music occasionally, and hang out with friends nearly every night. Fortunately, I have a flexible work schedule, so chores happen during the day when no one's around to hang out with anyhow. I would say I'm pretty close to the ideal there.
I'm an extremely happy person by nature, a character trait that I feel very fortunate to have. The things that make me happiest are making music, making people happy, and spending time with my friends. I'm also a fan of learning, lounging in my hot tub, conversations about philosophy and life, and piles of friends cuddling on the couch.
My prize possession is my grand piano. That, and my house, my hot tub, and my projector screen in the basement. I don't own any of these things for my sake (ok, the house, sort of--I have to live somewhere). I own them for my friends. I have spent the last 2 or 3 years trying to build a household where friends are always welcome and always comfortable coming over.
If you visit me I will play you music, order take out food with you, and talk with you for hours. If you're really brave you will play the piano with me (musician or not) and I will love it. If I like you I will go on long walks with you, make you food (I'm a good but occasional cook), write music for you, and try to take pictures of you when you're not looking.
What I’m doing with my life
A small part of me still wants to save the world, and that part of me is trying to save the world through computer progamming. But I've gotten more realistic as I've aged, and I've decided that my real goal in life is to spend time with my friends and enjoy myself. In the summer I like to ride my bike everywhere--it's not uncommon for me to ride 150 miles in a week. I like to go to parks and juggle. In the winter, I like to sit in my hot tub and look at the stars. I like to have people come over to my house for movie marathons.
I’m really good at
I've recently started a blog of my piano improvisations. You can find it here: http://maison-anomala.livejournal.com/
The first things people usually notice about me
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My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Movies: Amelie. Magnolia. American Beauty. Galaxyquest. Jackie Brown. L.A. Story. The Matrix (but only the first one). Anything by Baz Luhrmann. Playing by Heart. Run Lola Run. O Brother Where Art Thou.
Classical music: Chopin, Schumann, Bach, and just about anything performed by the Academy of St. Martin in the Fields. Everybody tells me I should love Handel, but I just don't care for his stuff.
Other music: Dave Matthews. Frou Frou. Jem. Nelly Furtado. Norah Jones. Pearl Jam. Red Hot Chili Peppers. Sarah McLachlan. The Eagles. U2. Weezer.
Other other music: I also love Sacred Harp singing, which is odd since it's heavy-handed religious music, and normally that sort of thing turns me off. But there's nothing like standing in the middle of a chorus of untrained-yet-very-competent singers, belting their lungs and hearts out to music written in the deep South 150 years ago.
Food: Thai food! Indian food! Mediterranean food! Ethiopian food! Vegan food! Om nom nom.
The six things I could never do without
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
You should message me if
...If you can put up with puns and occasionally even make them yourself.
...If you like people-watching in tea shops.
...If you like deconstructing the social dynamics of large groups of friends.
...If you'd like a bicycling companion in Portland.
...If it doesn't seem strange to you that someone's piano should be worth more than his car, and be better cared for.