Hi i am Steve, 36 from Dudley, W Mids, I am on here like most other people to meet that special someone, i feel my life has a huge empty spot and needs filling :), i consider myself to be a loving, caring, kind, very passionate, trustworthy, and honest person with a good sense of humor. i am also a romantic with the right person who likes to give the same back.

I am about to start a new job after being out of work for a while as a support worker in mental health :) i am also doing a part time open degree in adult mental health x i was doing it in criminology and psychology but changed it recently to reflect my new work x

I am quite good with computers as i used to refurbish them and network them for work quite a few years back, i think i am a good listener and quite good at giving good advise just wish i could follow my own sometimes lol. I love helping people even when it intrudes on my own life sometimes , but i guess that's life. i also think i quite a decent cook as well so i been told especially cooking for that someone special.

I have to go on what people have told me in past so here goes...

I have quite a stocky and broad build, i been told i got a nice smile by some but need to smile more often, i been told i got a good sense of humor though it can be a bit dry or course at times but still good lol.

Books.... I loved reading the Harry potter collection, and have read a few books but has to be something that grips me, i read a few biographies also. Oh and also love books like documentry books i think they called lol where they delve in to real world criminal or supernatural stories.

Movies.... Love Horror, martial art and action films but also love rom coms, comedies most thing really but i not a period drama person.

Shows.... Love Dexter, top gear, some cooking shows, documentaries, i love watching QVC and ideal world shopping channels as well lol, sad i know but not all the time lol, there plenty more just cant think at the moment which is always the case lol.

Music... i love all music from opera to rock, i currently listening to Bruno mars, James Morrison, but love bon jovi and all types really depends on my mood.

Food... my fav subject ;) I love Italian, Indian, Chinese, a good roast Sunday lunch with all the trimmings, Mexican, pizza, love creamy desserts ... OK most desserts lol, but Hate parmesan cheese ... yuk

oh dear here goes in no particular order and subject to change :D

1. My 2 lads
2. My Phone
3. T.V
4. Money ( come on we all need it)
5. My cats ( i have an obligation lol)
6. Love ( this covers affection, making love, romance etc .... just need to find it first ) ....:(

How and if ill ever meet my soul mate, my future as regards work and where i want to go with it, my kids and at the moment the snow lol

If i honest i am usually at home alone lol watching a movie and chatting or talking to friends, i could lie and say i down the pub and dancing the night away.

Wow errr ..... hmmm .... i cant really think but i guess when i comes ill let the person i chatting to know :)

If you are looking for a good friendship with hopes of it leading into something meaningful and that you do want a potential long term relationship. Also if you want a guy that goes out of his way in a relationship and is not controlling or abusive and but romantic, honest and faithful. But most importantly if you are over your Ex and don't have a flame burning for another person and you are definitely ready for a relationship, not get into one and few weeks down the road use that excuse and it ends. I am here to try find that special some one, who is kind, honest, passionate ;), romantic, faithful and makes an effort in a relationship.