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  • Ages 22-36
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Last online
Jul 30, 2014
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. I am an intelligent (sometimes) and creative chap who is looking for an interesting and independent woman.

I own a few small businesses and am committed to acting, in life and in work, with a social conscience. The way most people would describe me is part inventor, part business man and part geek but always fun.

I have a degree in Psychology and want to train further as a psychotherapist. I'm a good laugh and am not affraid to admit to having a sensitive side. I enjoy music and try to get to gigs when time, and oppertunity allow. I have a large network of friends and spend a lot of time out and about and usually end up with a story or two.

I have loads of interests including hacking (not what you think, hacking is where you take something and turn it into something else, i.e. use old electrical parts to build a robot), web development, playing guitar, reading.

What else? Well, I have a real love for people. I am constantly surprised by the strength and motivation that some people have and I have been very lucky to have met some truly outstanding individuals through the years.

hmmm.. really hard to talk about myself so ill leave it here and remaine a mystery-ish man.

I am fun, friendly, and slightly beardy
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wow, big question.. Have done many things; a manager for Wetherspoons, run a kids club, gone to uni, worked on a mental health ward, and had lots of good times.

At the moment I am running a couple of businesses. The main one is Medway Times, an on-line independent news resource for Medway. It is growing daily and I truly believe that it will change the way local people get their news. The second business is for my inventions, I am working on 7 projects and am sure that at least one will make it to the shelves soon.

I am a member of a local hack space where a group of very creative individuals get together to make some incredible things.

Generally speaking, I am just enjoying my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening!! I know that sounds strange but its true... I have had listening training believe it or not.

I'm also pretty good at cooking, web design, understanding others and, apparently, bragging.

I want to spend my life learning new things and truly believe that the more you know, the more you realize you don't know.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well it used to be my long hair but I have had my locks lopped off and, like Samson, I miss it - damn Deliha! Now I would say the first thing someone would notice about me is my eyes.. they are nice and blue and... well... eye like.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book has to be memories, dreams and reflections by Carl Jung. The man is a genius and a bit off the wall!

One of my favourite movies is Black Snake Moan. Its all about the soundtrack!

Favorite music, anything from classical to rock. I love experimental bands like sigur ross and godspeed you... hate r'n'b with a passion. Sorry R'n'B lovers but its just not my bag.

Food wise, I like most of it but have a real addiction to Mexican food and my mates home made traditional Indian dishes. There is nothing quite like really hot and free food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Friends/family
2) Music
3) Guitar
4) Laptop
5) Fun
6) Time to reflect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmmmm.. apart from the usual day to day stuff, I spend a lot of time thinking about existential matters, i.e. the nature of altruism. Not that i'm a mad man but it is something that my Psychology has brought out in me.

When I'm not thinking about the deep stuff I am normally trying to work out the name of a song from an advert or, while on a train, I think of something funny and let out a laugh which jolts the other commuters out of their morning comas. Miserable sods!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing stuff.. I very rarely go to a club but I am always busy. Out for lunch or vegging in a nice pub with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My pin code is... hehe. Seriously, my most private deepest and darkest secret that I am willing to admit here is unbelievably revieling about me. I have never told anyone this, not a single sole in the whole wide world. Not one person knows this and this is the only situation where I feel comfortable enough to discuss it as people dont know me here. The private thing that I am about to tell you all is, and I must ask you to sware that you will tell no one, not even your best friend. This morning, not more than 3 hours ago, around 11 am British standard time, I, Steve, had a sausage sandwich with white bread and a little bit of onion - it was bloody lovely. hehe! Got yea!
You should message me if
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You are a good person who is without pretence or malice. If that is you feel free to message me. I will be checking this pretty regular and look forward to hearing from you. Don't be shy. xx