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steve_bee

23 / M / straight / Single

Frederick, Maryland

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am adventure!, intrigue!, and mystery!.

My Self-Summary

I can't think of a really good way to describe myself, so I'll have to settle for mediocrity:

Working as an in-house designer at a print shop while pursuing my degree in design.

I don't believe in settling for unhappiness. Those who have the means and abilities should always find whatever makes them happy. I'm not setting unrealistic expectations, though--it's OK to be confused and sad as long as you're learning and working to change that.

I'm always willing to share my love and life with someone who's got respect for his/her mind and body (and hopefully cares for others, too).

What I’m doing with my life

Spending my life learning what it means to live: defeating apathy wherever it slumps; learning to respect everyone's bodies and minds; and developing my philosophy.

I’m really good at

Playing guitar while singing (though not particularly great at either, separately). I love good, meaningful conversation while holding a beer in my hand. I'd like to think I'm good at providing one side of that kind of conversation. I've been proven wrong before, though.

I'm caring, responsible, and a sincere conversationalist. I respect everyone's time... I know how precious it is.

The first things people usually notice about me

The Red Hair, I guess.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Oh, shrimp. Hmm.

Books:

A Song of Ice and Fire series, The Road, The Catcher in the Rye, Don Quixote (laughed so many times during these books that I remember the laughter more than the books' events). Anything by: Heinlein, Pratchett, Wodehouse, Adams--basically, anybody who can poke fun at the sacred, obviate a convention's blanket of mystery, and laugh at those who can't.

Music:

The Shins, Television, Muse, The Meat Puppets, Gorillaz, Band of Horses, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Wilco, The Replacements, Modest Mouse, System of a Down, Golden Smog, The Zombies, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd--way too many to name. The list would take forever. You get the idea, though.

Food:

Home-cooked, tasty meals that can be shared. Some divine combinations:

- Pineapple + cottage cheese
- French toast + applesauce
- Strawberries + banana + yogurt + maple syrup
- Pesto + hummus
- Good conversation + beer

The six things I could never do without

- Beer
- Music
- Friends + Family
- Video Games
- Exercise/Outdoors/Sun--Adventure!
- Good Food

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about conventions. Psychology definitely interests me, and I like trying to get to really know people. I love good conversations and trying to puzzle something out with somebody. It's the only time I feel like I really connect with people.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out somewhere. Unless I'm not. In that case, I'm either reading or playing video games. Or I'm possibly playing guitar. Or talking to someone. Or maybe eating.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

In person I'm willing to talk about nearly anything. On here, not so much. But yeah, I'm a pretty open person. I don't think there's any reason for me to hide anything about myself... everything's just an experience, anyway.

You should message me if

If you're into social drinking, video games, exercising, or going on adventures. Always up for a good chat, too.