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My self-summary Propose an edit

Hi ;) I'm a friendly slightly introverted person with quiet tastes yet surprisingly easily bored by the humdrum of normal life.....

I have to say I'm not a gregarious "party animal" but love strong friendships, trust, playful humour and a quality connection. I have many friends and enjoy people as well as time alone. I am looking for a special lady who will add fun and laughter to my life, who really must have an intelligent sparkle - who can be my friend and confidante. In return, I will be your close companion and be there when needed. I am a curious, thorough and calming person and I tend to approach life with a logical attitude.

Friends think that I'm a bit of a perfectionist, and I guess there's some truth to that since I try to do the best I can. I am not the kind of person who is always looking to make changes in my life, rather I try to see the good in the way things are right now. I consider myself to be the kind of person who very much tries to remain calm when things are getting out of control, and perhaps that's my patient, serious side shining through.

I can speak my innermost feelings quite readily to friends - though sometimes these take a while to "jell" in myself. I am a great listener, too. I try to avoid upsets when possible, believing that most things can be resolved in a friendly way. I really don't like dramas.

Being in a relationship and spending time with friends and family are very important to me, yet I need my own time each day too. I have pretty good judgement and expect high standards of myself - and I look for these traits in the people that I meet.

Friendships are just as important to me as romances - though I do hope to find that right person who I can share a joy of life and sensuality. OK, so what do I want? An intelligent, smiley, curvy woman with generous and caring outlook (and finds me charming, not odd...) who enjoys music and has an easy style (... I am no longer into dramas). Write and tell me about yourself... I love it when energy rises, rather then flattens and becomes dull. Whew! Do write and tell me about yourself...

Sorry, No Smokers

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Making more space for me :)

It's compulsory as I've been kicked out of work (Oct '08) by the recession :(

Polishing that CV - it's now so very shiny!

Socialising with good friends is important - like music Tears for Fears some TV, action films, documentaries etc. and chatting. Now loosing weight in Cambridge Diet!

I'm really good at Propose an edit

abstract things, PC / IT, thinking about complex stuff and explaining it easily.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My size - I'm tall ! Imposing guy in "gentle giant" mode.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Quality SF books - Ian M Banks, Neal Asher etc. Um, thrillers, some fantasy, action movies, and general audience films.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Friends, my PC, mobile, car? A good camera. Someone I love to hold, burying my face into her hair with my eyes closed...

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

well solving problems - sometimes physics, sometimes computing - whatever! Used to try to do that for people but PEOPLE ARE JUST TOO COMPLEX! Argh!

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Relaxing at home with a cup of tea or some red wine. Music is on ("Blondie")

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Borderline Aspie! INFJ! Quite literal; please be clear and kind :) with no gamey stuff; fed up with all that. Hidden romantic; falls in love too easily.

You should message me if Propose an edit

you are smiley, warm and looking for a longer match :)

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