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44 M Newport Beach, CA

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My self-summary
I am a unique and special individual, are you? I have been truly blessed, and thank God every day for my blessings, for my health, and for another beautiful Southern California day. I like to live peacefully, and to have inner peace. I probably fit with someone who is also peaceful, although someone with lots of energy and spark can energize me too. I like intelligence in a sexy female form. Is that possible? Chemistry and compatibility are vital. I am attracted to a thicker, more solid build rather than a skinny build. Muscularity in a woman can be a turn-on for me. Tall can also be a turn-on. I also like hourglassy, curvy, full-figured, more voluptuous figures (get the picture?). I love femininity in a woman, old-fashioned values, some independence, maybe a woman who is tough (a tiger) in the boardroom, but a pussycat in the bedroom and at home. Someone who maybe has power in the office, then wants to leave it all behind after work and lose it all at home. OK – just checking – to see if you were paying attention to me. You know I hate to be ignored!! So…brains and beauty and a good, big heart do it for me. Enough said. Peace and Love! Over and Out! Adios! Aloha! Ciao! SMS

I am sexy, awesome, and cool
What I’m doing with my life
I like anything and everything (within reason) that keeps life and love interesting and fun. I love to be happy. I love to be in happy situations and relationships. Life is too short to be miserable or unhappy. If you are unhappy – figure out why – and make the needed changes. I like balance in my life - keeping the mind and body fit; keeping work and play in perspective; balancing the physical with the emotional / spiritual; stopping to smell the roses. I like to: work out with weights; bike in the back bay or the beach; travel for work or pleasure; visit exotic islands far away; find culture in plays or in ancient lands; listen to live music (jazz, blues, reggae, island sounds); take getaway weekends; explore; meet new people; dining in or out; casual or fine dining; BBQ's; great conversation (an aphrodisiac!); watching and discussing movies; passion; motivation; the beach; walks on the pier; sunsets; cuddling; hand holding; smooching; endless summers and sunsets; kisses that last for days; anticipating that first kiss; delivering that first kiss; waking up with that “good” feeling; thinking about someone else; dreaming; walks on the beach; weekends, Southern California; Newport Beach. I guess that I am just a hopeless (or hopeful) romantic.
I’m really good at
I am Mr. Wonderful! (kidding - but I loved the movie!). I am one of a kind. Unique (But so are all God's children). I am all of the following in a uniquely balanced blend: confident; secure; financially and emotionally stable; Aries; sexy!; passionate; loving; giving (for an only child!); down to earth; mature; responsive; affectionate; diverse; accepting of all people and cultures; well balanced; professional; intelligent; amorous; honest and direct; a good communicator (but don't we all feel that we are?); spontaneous (in a planned sort of way!); optimistic and positive; healthy (no bad vices! - into Wellness); young at heart; a tease; a rebel; playful, fun; funny; romantic; mysterious; touchy feely; independent; a free spirit; sun tanned. I am looking for Mickey Rourke's Kim Basinger in 9 1/2 weeks. I am a well-grounded Midwest good boy with a few parts bad boy in him. 6’0” 195. Can't Find A Better Man!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am looking for a lifelong friend. A best friend for life. A partner. A teammate. A soul mate. A lover. Synergy and chemistry. A woman who is confident, strong, healthy, smart, successful and at peace with herself and with life. A connection. Chemistry – physical, emotional and spiritual. A woman “with a mind for business and a bod for sin.” I have no age or weight hang-ups. I am very open-minded and am amazed sometimes on what arouses me. I like a reliable, trustworthy, considerate, passionate, affectionate (touchy / feely) woman with a big heart and one that is not a flake. Anna Nicole Smith or Jayne Mansfield with brains. I am open to meeting all types of women (everyone is different) but prefer a taller and/or shorter thicker woman. Nurses and teachers feel free to respond (givers tend to work in these fields). I find that I am attracted to a tall, voluptuous or athletic, confident, intelligent, successful, attractive, passionate, giving and loving woman. Maybe a pretty plus-size model type (like an Emme). Cute with a shorter and thicker teddy-bear type build with the above qualities also works for me. I also like some muscle tone on a woman (muscles are sexy!!), maybe on a big-boned woman. A “real” woman – no doubt! Plastic or fake women look somewhere else…that dog don’t hunt with me! I welcome diversity and enjoy it (sounds like an EEO ad).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Legends of the Fall, Moonstruck, Pulp Fiction, Somewhere in Time, 9 ½ weeks, Wild Orchid, Two Moon Junction, Silence of the Lambs, About Last Night, Harley Davidson and the Marlboro Man, Mr. Wonderful, Wall Street, Falling Down, After Hours, Pretty in Pink, Sixteen Candles, Breakfast Club, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Singles, St. Elmo’s Fire, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, Some Kind Of Wonderful, Animal House, Desperado, Mystic Pizza, Office Space, Employee of the Month, Euro Trip, Wicker Park, Once Upon A Time in Mexico; When Lucy Fell; She’s the One; The Brothers McMullen; Ocean’s 11,12,13; Any movie with Al Pacino, Robert DeNiro, Brad Pitt, Julia Roberts, Tom Hanks, Jack Nicholson, Mickey Rourke, Edward Burns or Annabella Sciora. Also Sex in the City and The Sopranos, The Real World and Road Rules, The Bachelor and the Bachelorette, Joe Millionaire, and The Apprentice, Laguna Beach – The Real Orange County (MTV); The Real Housewives of Orange County; The OC; Newport Harbor (The Real OC);

Alternative Rock, Rock & Roll, Classical, Jazz, Reggae, Blues, Island Sounds, 91X, KROQ 106.7, the WAVE 94.7, Indie 103.1, Resurrection Sunday with Steve West on 91X, Flashback lunches and weekends on KROQ,

Rolling Stones, Aerosmith, Jimmy Buffett, Van Halen, Offspring, No Doubt, Go-Go’s, Bruce Springsteen, KISS, Queen, John Mellencamp, U2, Journey, Guns & Roses, Pearl Jam, Oingo Boingo, Bob Marley, Green Day, Bon Jovi, Madonna, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Def Leppard, Social Distortion, Mike Ness, Grateful Dead, Jane’s Addiction, Incubus, Violent Femmes, Blink 182, Rick Springfield (Jesse’s Girl only!), Depeche Mode, Jack Johnson, Duran Duran, Everclear, Rancid , Sublime, Sugar Ray, Weezer, Pennywise; System of a Down; Toad the Wet Sprocket; The Cure;

Favorite Songs:

We Close Our Eyes (Oingo Boingo); Slave to Love (B. Ferry); The Weather is Here (Wish You Were Beautiful) (J. Buffett); Spiderwebs (No Doubt); Under the Bridge (RH Chili Peppers); Betterman (Pearl Jam); Dead or Alive (Bon Jovi); Touch of Gray (Grateful Dead); Little Red Corvette (Prince); Bathwater (No Doubt); Beautiful Day (U2); November Rain (Guns & Roses); Best of Both Worlds (VH); Welcome to the Jungle (G&R); Growing Up (Social D); Cryin (Aerosmith); Crazy (Aerosmith); Bad Luck (Social D); Story of My Life (Social D); Bandages (Atari’s); Jump (VH); Vacation (Go-Go’s); Born To Run (Bruce); Rock and Roll All Night (KISS); Sheena is a Punk Rocker (Ramones); All the Small Things (Blink 182); Dammit (Blink 182); Redemption Song (Johnny Cash / Bob Marley); Fall Back Down (Rancid); Bad Luck (Social D); Portland, Oregon (Loretta Lynn and Jack White); Caress Me Down (Sublime); Knockin’ On Heaven’s Door (G&R); Friday and I’m in Love (The Cure); I’m in Love…With That Song (Replacements); Time of Your Life (Green Day); Why Don’t You Get a Job (Offspring); You Make Me Come, You Make Me Complete, You Make Me Completely Miserable (Lit); Mexican Radio (Wall of Voodoo); Boys N the Hood (Dynamite Hack); The Kid’s Aren’t Alright (Offspring); Mr. Brightside (Killers); Girl (Beck); Holiday (Green Day); Come Out and Play/Keep ‘Em Separated (Offspring); She’s Got Issues (Offspring); Pretty Fly (For a White Guy) (Offspring); American Idiot (Green Day); When I Come Around (Green Day); Holiday (Green Day); Fly (Sugar Ray); One Headlight (Wallflowers); What’s My Name Again (Blink 182); Pretty in Pink (Psychedelic Furs); Here Comes My Man (Pixies); Scar Tissue (RHCP’s); What’s Your Story (RHCP’s); Buddy Holly (Weezer); 18 And Life (Skid Row); Santorina (Sublime); Excuse Me Mister (No Doubt); Where Have All The Good People Gone (Jack Johnson); Who Says You Can’t Go Home (Bon Jovi); Used to Love Her (Guns & Roses); Snow (Red Hot Chili Peppers); Walls (Tom Petty); Dyslexic Heart (Paul Westerberg); You Be Me For A While, And I’ll Be You (Replacements); Words (Missing Persons); Free Falling (Tom Petty); American Girl (Tom Petty); Christmas Is The Time To Say I Love You (Billy Squier); Voices Carry (‘Til Tuesday); Stacy’s Mom (Has Got It Going On) (Fountains of Wayne); It’s My Life (Bon Jovi); A Matter of Trust (Billy Joel); Californication (RHCP’s); Jane Fonda (Mickey Avalon); Closer to Free (The Bodeans); Minority (Green Day); Darling Nikki (Prince/Foo Fighters); Head Over Heels (Go-Go’s); Right Now (Van Halen); Here We Go Again (OK Go); I Like Big Butts (Sir Mix-A-Lot); Don’t You Forget About Me (Simple Minds); Why Do We Always Send The Poor (System of a Down); Nice Guys Finish Last (Green Day); Minority (Green Day); The Roof Is On Fire (Bloodhound Gang); Bad Habit (Offspring); Jaded (Aerosmith); Janie’s Got A Gun (Aerosmith); Prayer of the Refugee (Rise Against); My Doorbell (White Stripes); Just A Girl (No Doubt); Learning to Fly (Tom Petty); Bro Hymn (Pennywise); Bad Fish (Sublime); Psycho Groupie Cocaine Crazy (System of a Down); Bleed It Out (Linkin Park); We Didn’t Start the Fire (Billy Joel); She Don’t Use Jelly (Flaming Lips); Nothing Man (Pearl Jam); Time Bomb (Rancid); New (No Doubt); The Zephyr Song (Red Hot Chili Peppers); Otherside (Red Hot Chili Peppers); Flake (Jack Johnson); Bubble Toes (Jack Johnson); All I Want (Toad The Wet Sprocket); Leavin’ Las Vegas (Cheryl Crow); B.Y.O.B. (System of a Down); Sugar (System of a Down); All Summer Long (Kid Rock); The Cure (Friday I’m in Love; Just Like Heaven; Lovesong; Pictures of You; Fascination Street); Let Me Go (Cake); Love Walks In (Van Halen); Otherside (RHCPs); When It’s Love (VH); Name (Goo Goo Dolls); Big Me (Foo Fighters);
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the meaning of life and why we are here on this earth
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–74
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you have that feeling about me