Nothing really rattles me, i may bitch and moan for a bit but its usually all bark and no bite. life's too short to be pissed off all the time. I'm usually the first one to apologize in a conflict, even if its just to end the problem.
I've been in a non-monogamous relationship for 9 years, and my wife comes first. That being said I am looking for a consistent secondary partner. This means actual dating possibly ending in strong, lasting feelings. I'm not just looking for tonight, but I'm also a realist and not going to turn that down if it presents itself.