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steveisawesome

38 / M / straight / Single

Richmond, Virginia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Overweight
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am humorous, smart, and cool.

My Self-Summary

I am a systems professional at a local hospital. I work normal hours and I am good at what I do. I have good friends I work with.
I am separated from a woman I have been with for 17 years. I just got let out of a serious relationship that was not working.
I am overweight but working on changing that I ran my first 5k this year and I hope to do more. I am not into having a drama filled relationship. I feel like I am old enough to know what I want in a woman.
I know it seems like I am rambling but this is who I am.
I am a gamer and a romantic.
I would love to find a girl who loves to play mmo's or at least is interest in trying.
I want someone I can hold hands with.
I want someone to go drink coffee with.
I want to watch and listen to the rain while cuddled up in a blanket. I love storms.
I am only interested in non-smokers (it seems like a tall order but I was born with CF but I am fine now [if you dont know look it up ..if you dont know how dont even talk to me.])
I hope you give me a chance. I am a good friend and great lover (meaning I like pleasing a woman when I re-read this it kind of sounds over the top so I hope it makes sense otherwise I just sound like a dork.)

What I’m doing with my life

Trying to find love and be the best dad I can be.

I’m really good at

finding things on the internet and computers ...I wont fix yours but I do recommend you get a new one.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and I am a big guy ...I am heavier and I am trying hard to change that.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Tolkien, R.A. Salvatore are my favorite authors
I love movies - going to see them and renting them to watch.
I love music - I really hear the words and they have meaning to me.
I love to eat ...I am a social eater. I am trying hard to control portions and not pig-out but I love to eat. I am not vegetarian at all, I respect it but its not for me.

The six things I could never do without

I know that every profile I have read on here has said the same thing.
So here is my new list:
1) happiness
2) someone to talk to and bounce ideas off
3) someone to listen to and comfort
4) working out
5) someone to please and make smile
6) love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

why should being alone be so important. I don't have an answer.

On a typical Friday night I am

chilling with my friends or hanging out with my boys.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am almost divorced and have 2 boys (age 5 and 6) every other weekend.

You should message me if

YOU are ready.