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37 M Elmer, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:27am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
I'm from South Jersey, grew up on a small farm, go back and forth between the city and the country often, and am happiest when I'm around friends or family. My favorite ways to spend time include meeting friends for drinks or dinner, grabbing a good book and reading at a coffee shop for an hour or so on the weekend, reading and learning in general, thinking about philosophy and why we are here, finding new wines and good places to drink it, watching a good show, concert or movie. I cook at home and bake sometimes too.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a database marketing analytics consultant to big pharma. I focus on brand marketing analytics, not the managed markets side.
I’m really good at
Listening, eating, carpentry, electrical work, following through on obligations and commitments, being supportive to those I care about. I try to be good at being compassionate toward others as well. I really love cooking dinner for family and hosting dinner parties. That's a lot of fun. I'd like to think I'm good at it...hopefully I'm getting good at it at least.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything uplifting or thought provoking. As for music, classical, and to narrow that down mainly baroque/early piano solo.
The six things I could never do without
friends, family, good food, smart phone, cafés, and access to cities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's for lunch and what's for dinner. Philosophy (I very much respect Lucretius and Epicurus) and have very little time for most religions (or in particular, people who believe religious text is history rather than stories). Also, topics related to why America isn't more like Norway. I also think a lot about how I can improve myself, how I can learn more, and generally, how I can live a meaningful, well lived life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Varies. Sometimes I'm tired and I just call it an early night. Sometimes happy hour and dinner with some friends. And sometimes I get a big surprise and do something totally unexpected.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I meditate every morning for 20 minutes. Sometimes I do it again in the afternoon, but I tend to get lazy and forget.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a good person who contributes to the world and you think we may click. I'm as open to new friends as I am to dating.