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stevenok

24 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am generous, artistic, and rather silly.

My Self-Summary

I listen well. I forgive everything. I give good advice. I'm empathetic. I'm an open book. I daydream. I pace. I run into things. I think people are essentially good. I think people are essentially selfish. I see no contradiction in the above two statements. I fall in love once every two years. I'm a writer who spends most of his time writing. I'm a planner. I'm protective of my time. I'm generous with my time. I'd rather not throw time away. I'd rather have an argument than avoid it. I take criticism well. I am confident, but not proud. I'm good in the clutch, but not in the spur-of-the-moment. I'm an optimist. I giggle. I enjoy your company. I think you're fascinating, unique and misunderstood.

I'm looking for someone who can challenge me intellectually, who wants to understand and be understood, who is attractive and finds me attractive and who will drag me out onto the dance floor, because really, I enjoy being silly and just want to make you laugh.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a playwright. So I write, a lot.

I’m really good at

empathy, self-reflection, conflict resolution, and god let us hope I can write plays

The first things people usually notice about me

that I'm genuine, self-effacing and disarming
or perhaps my very particular laugh

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Absalom, Absalom!, The Aeneid, John Arden, Beloved, Blood Meridian, Edward Bond, Crime and Punishment, The Road, Sam Shepard, The Sound and the Fury

Movies: Amores Perros, Annie Hall, The Dark Knight, No Country For Old Men, Pulp Fiction, There Will Be Blood

Music: Arcade Fire, David Bazan, The Decemberists, The Mountain Goats, Regina Spektor, Sufjan Stevens

Food: Ethiopian, Latin American, Coffee

The six things I could never do without

family, friends, coffee, something to write with, a stage, more coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about

people I know, plays I've been writing

On a typical Friday night I am

the days all blend together

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm sure I said it already.

You should message me if

If you're considering it, you should. I understand that guys do most of the messaging on these sites. And I understand why. Nevertheless, guys also like receiving messages. I promise, really, we do.