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43 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 14
Middle Eastern, White, Other
Open relationship
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Originally from Florida. Now I'm living in Oakland, Ca. I have found a lot of inspiration here in Oakland, but I plan on living in some secluded spot in the shadow of a mountain somewhere with a farm, goats, and some kind of solar powered earth ship. I'm still trying to figure out my next move.

I am a musician and radical. I think it's safe to say that I live outside the mainstream. My life is pretty chaotic.

I am very busy so I find it hard to go out on big adventures, but I will make the time for friends. I love scenic bike rides. Hiking. Nothing to grueling. I like making dinner and watching movies. I like gardening, but someone has to tell me what to do the whole time because I'm still a novice at gardening. I love to have wonky conversations about politics or philosophy. I love taking risks and having new experiences. I'm not a high strung person, but I am proactive.

I'm in a serious poly-amorous relationship with a primary partner. I would love to meet someone in a poly relationship or is not looking for a serious primary partner.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am homesteading a house in Oakland living mostly off grid.

I also recently passed the bar exam. I am the CEO of a non-profit social justice housing organization. I also work for an environmental advocacy non-profit to pay the bills. I am starting a business providing estate legal services. Basically I have a lot of plates spinning.

I play guitar in a metal band.
I’m really good at
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Trouble making. Scheming. Cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am outgoing and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Trial, The Stranger, Candide, The Foundation Trilogy, The Valis Trilogy, ...
Movies: The Bourne series, Serenity, Twin Peaks, Thank You For Smoking, Pans Labyrinth, Holy Mountain, Dune,
Shows: Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Twin Peaks, Yacht Rock, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog,...
Music: Everything that ever existed. Punk, Metal, Jazz, Classical, Experimental, World, Industrial, Country, Pop... but mostly Metal, Miles Daves, Mahavishnu Orchestra, and Blaze Foley these days. Who knows tomorrow...
Food: I recently broke vegan edge after 18 years. I slaughtered a chicken to seal the deal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, Food, Music... the rest is a toss up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strategy. Ideas for books and scripts that I never find the time to write.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At band rehearsal and then go out or go home depending on what's happening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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After many years of separation from my wife we finally stopped procrastinating got divorced. I am currently in an open relationship with a primary partner.
You should message me if
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you want to.