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42 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For short-term dating
- Last online
- Dec 20, 2014
- Middle Eastern, White, Other
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from law school
- Sales / Marketing
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
I am a musician and radical. I think it's safe to say that I live outside the mainstream. My life is pretty chaotic.
I am very busy so I find it hard to go out on big adventures, but I will make the time for friends. I love scenic bike rides. Hiking. Nothing to grueling. I like making dinner and watching movies. I like gardening, but someone has to tell me what to do the whole time because I'm really clueless with plants. I'm getting better. I love to have wonky conversations about politics or philosophy. I love taking risks and having new experiences. I'm not a high strung person, but I am proactive in life.
I'm in a serious poly-amorous relationship with a primary partner. The crowd I hang out with tends to be younger than me. It would be cool to meet people closer to my own age to hook up with, but it's not a big deal really.
I also recently passed the bar exam. I am in the process of getting a non-profit social justice housing organization off the ground while continuing to work for an environmental advocacy non-profit to pay the bills.
I play guitar in a metal band.
Movies: The Bourne series, Serenity, Twin Peaks, Thank You For Smoking, Pans Labyrinth, Holy Mountain, Dune,
Shows: Breaking Bad, Dexter, Twin Peaks, Yacht Rock, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog,...
Music: pfft... everything that ever existed. Punk, Metal, Jazz, Classical, Experimental, World, Industrial, Country, Pop... but mostly Metal, Miles Daves, Mahavishnu Orchestra, and Blaze Foley these days. Who knows tomorrow...
Food: Vegan. There is not a vegan cuisine I do not like. Variety is great. If you're not vegan that's fine. I'm not militant or anything.
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