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42 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 20, 2014
Middle Eastern, White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Sales / Marketing
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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Originally from Florida. Now I'm living in Oakland, Ca. I have found a lot of inspiration here in Oakland, but I am beginning to question my commitment to living in the Bay Area. I am starting to think of living in some secluded spot in the shadow of a mountain somewhere with a farm, goats, and some kind of solar powered earth ship. I don't know. I'm still trying to figure out my next move.

I am a musician and radical. I think it's safe to say that I live outside the mainstream. My life is pretty chaotic.

I am very busy so I find it hard to go out on big adventures, but I will make the time for friends. I love scenic bike rides. Hiking. Nothing to grueling. I like making dinner and watching movies. I like gardening, but someone has to tell me what to do the whole time because I'm really clueless with plants. I'm getting better. I love to have wonky conversations about politics or philosophy. I love taking risks and having new experiences. I'm not a high strung person, but I am proactive in life.

I'm in a serious poly-amorous relationship with a primary partner. The crowd I hang out with tends to be younger than me. It would be cool to meet people closer to my own age to hook up with, but it's not a big deal really.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am homesteading a house in Oakland living mostly off grid.

I also recently passed the bar exam. I am in the process of getting a non-profit social justice housing organization off the ground while continuing to work for an environmental advocacy non-profit to pay the bills.

I play guitar in a metal band.
I’m really good at
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Trouble making. Scheming. Cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am outgoing and gregarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Trial, The Stranger, Candide, The Foundation Trilogy, The Valis Trilogy, ...
Movies: The Bourne series, Serenity, Twin Peaks, Thank You For Smoking, Pans Labyrinth, Holy Mountain, Dune,
Shows: Breaking Bad, Dexter, Twin Peaks, Yacht Rock, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog,...
Music: pfft... everything that ever existed. Punk, Metal, Jazz, Classical, Experimental, World, Industrial, Country, Pop... but mostly Metal, Miles Daves, Mahavishnu Orchestra, and Blaze Foley these days. Who knows tomorrow...
Food: Vegan. There is not a vegan cuisine I do not like. Variety is great. If you're not vegan that's fine. I'm not militant or anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, Food, Music... the rest is a toss up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strategy. Ideas for books and scripts that I never find the time to write.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At band rehearsal and then go out or go home depending on what's happening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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After many years of separation from my wife we have decided to stop procrastinating and begin an amicable divorce process. I am currently in an open relationship with a primary partner.
You should message me if
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you want to.