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51 M Dearborn, MI

My Details

Last Online
Apr 9
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm an open-minded, flexible, emotionally supportive, all-around decent guy who by-and-large doesn't suck. I like to write and I have had my poems and articles published, and I continue to have several books in various states of completion. I am an odd mix of shy and bold (well, I'm a bit of an odd mix in general). I sometimes thrive being at the center of things, and sometimes I just plain suck at it. But I'm generally game for just about anything.

To say that I am slow to anger would be an understatement. I very, very rarely get angry, and never get out of control angry. It's just not my nature. This doesn't make me passive. I can be assertive and know how to be assertive with a good sense of humor. I often don't find the need to be assertive because I just like going along and making new experiences my own.

I'm sometimes intelligent, pleasantly skeptical, and sometimes even clever and enjoy others who are likewise. I love humorous banter. For the most part, I find that brains are a major turn-on.

I enjoy reading, video games, crackling fires, wearing cool hats, beaches, chess, going to nice restaurants, cooking, eating, going to movies, singing, and cartoons. I don't enjoy sports (I tolerate them, but they just don't call to me), bigotry, sexism, or violence (except for James Bond type violence ... he's cool). I also get no enjoyment from gardening as for some reason I equate this with "work". I'll mow the lawn, and tote and dig as directed, but don't expect me to plant a plot of petunias of my own volition. :)

I'm a quiet but adventurous man with a good sense of humor and an easy smile. Looking for an honest, intelligent, and adventurous woman to laugh and share good times with. I would much prefer a potential life partner to a one-night stand.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as an administrator of a mid-sized public library system, and I run a moderately successful Tumblr blog. I would frankly love to be an astrophysicist, but I can't get the library to agree that it's essential knowledge for my job and thus pay for half of it. I still hope to be an astronaut one day. \o/
I’m really good at
Writing (fiction, non-fiction, poetry, you name it); art (though I haven't held a brush in years); technological junk; and being me ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
The lovely hair that fails to grow on top of my head. Beyond that, I've been told that I have nice eyes, an easy smile, and that I dress well when I put my mind to it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a freaking librarian. I love too many books to even THINK about classifying one as a particular favorite. My favorite book tend to be the last on I just read, which in this case would be a non-fiction title called The Fabric of the Cosmos. I love humor especially, and now that I mention that I guess that The Hitch Hikers Guide to the Galaxy would probably be my favorite series. I tend to really like sci-fi movies, but I can enjoy almost any film except for slashers. Musically, I like just about everything except for violent rap. My favorite food is pizza, which is a gift from the gods and something to which I have an unnatural attraction.
The six things I could never do without
My daughters, pizza, my external memory devices, collectible frogs, pizza (yes, I know it's here twice), and my pancreas (I don't know exactly what it does, but I like an internal organ that does its job well without seeking a lot of attention for itself.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of reality and why the heck people do the silly things they do to each other. I spend a lot of time logicking about philosophy, which is a delightful waste of time. I enjoy thinking for thinking's sake.
On a typical Friday night I am
Generally I am bored on Friday nights. I hope to change that. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm ... uh ... bald (blush)
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if I sound interesting and like someone you'd like to get to know better. If you are passionately religious or very politically conservative, we might get along just fine, but I strongly suspect that no type of emotional relationship would come out of it.