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  • Ages 28-50
  • Near me
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Last online
Mar 15
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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i would describe myself as a creative intellectual type. I love to laugh and was (thankfully) born with a positive attitude. I am optimistic to my core and tend to avoid overly negative folks. I am a social person that has never been called shy. I am usually one to say "let's meet" mostly because I prefer face to face convos over email. In my opinion, conversations are as much about tone and body language as they are about words. Beyond that I am currently residing in the "see what happens" Realm. So, email and let's see what happens...
What I’m doing with my life
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Work in a school. Passion is visual art but that is a hobby. Also recently joined a classical choir. Trying to get back into singing. I love my job but love time off even more. Striving for simplicity in all aspects of my life so that is what I am doing currently. Simplifying.
I’m really good at
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talking to people, creating things, and thinking outside the box.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my hair, but not because I spend time on it. Because it is thick and usually sticking up. Think Heat Miser with dark brown hair...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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That is a big question. I really like horror movies and sci fi. On the other end, I enjoy indie movies that are heavy on the character development. I am not much of a TV watcher, but do make sure I catch The Walking Dead each week. I am reluctant to admit, but my Spotify tells me that I like "hipster" music. I also have been into blue grass/folky type music and intricate techno type music.. I enjoy all kinds of food but especially like Thai food and sushi. My book taste varies. I love Russell Banks, Alice Hoffman, and Wally Lamb. The most influential book for me was Animal Farm (which I read as a youngster and several times since). I typically like more modern fiction with strong character development.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children, my art supplies, my body pillow, my iPhone, my car (not because it is nice- because I like to be mobile), and a tie between sleep and music...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how light filters through and around various objects...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am not a pattern kinda guy. So, there isn't really "typical". I am either with my kids or doing whatever strikes my fancy that day. That usually includes some kind of social component...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that I don't readily admit private things. Ha. How about this, as a young teen I would put on one bejeweled glove and obsessively try to moonwalk. The walk never really defied gravity, so I eventually gave up. Consequently, I have a very deep rooted respect laced with a bit of envy for any effective moonwalkers.
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