Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
DON'T WORRY - NO GAMES HERE...!
HOBBIES: Being a good listener, Travel, Nature, Landscaping,
Sociology, Political Strategy, Philosophy, History, Archaeology,
Tennis, World Religions and learning new things every day.
I just recently learned that some women thought that if they merely
"visited" me, it would then be up to me to follow up with them.
Please don't think that. I'm not going to chase innocent people who
were just looking - you should be able to "shop" without getting
jumped on by every ape.
If you're interested, let me know - then I'll take it from
Good luck out there....!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
GOALS: Achieve financial security to provide quality of life.
My two dogs are my best girls and we have lots of fun in the desert
Hey - I want to stick this in here cuz I think it's pretty
important if you have kids.
I have an acquaintance who is a woman and a retired marriage
For fun one day, I'd asked her to take a look at my profile.
She did - liked it - but this is the interesting part......
She asked, "how many women are showing pictures of their children
on this site?"
I said, 'most who have them - they want to make it clear right up
front, love my children/love me.'
She was horrified.
She said, "Do you know how many pedophiles are shopping this site
right now as we speak, targeting women based on how attracted they
are to their kids?" ...and the women most likely are flattered that
a man would take an interest in their children.
NEVER PUT PICTURES OF YOUR CHILD ON A SITE ACCESSIBLE BY
STRANGERS!" she insisted.
We all know internet dating carries that "danger" stigma - why
would anyone willingly expose their children to it?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
And I mean - FREE THINKER.
I'll never demean you or dismiss what you have to say because
you're female. I also won't play games or cheat on you but I hope
that you won't play games, either.
I was raised by a smart and capable woman and sincerely regard you
to be my equal.
Believe it or not, that has challenged many of society's
Adult women who are seeking to finally find REAL RESPECT and who
long for a FUN & MATURE RELATIONSHIP may be glad they've met
Little Girls, Angels, Princesses, Queens, Divas, Fairies &
Avatars looking to be worshiped by a fantasy hero through
socially-conditioned game playing & archaic mating rituals are
setting themselves up for manipulation.
"Players" can't wait to meet you.
I've dated a lot throughout the years and there have been several
gorgeous women and several brilliant women but nobody
...and yes, the problem could be me.
Upon reflection, the ones who impressed me the most were those who
were simple, kind and positive.
They didn't ask for much and as a result, I felt like I just
couldn't stop doing enough for them; I was so appreciative that
THEY were so appreciative.
Time with them was easy, effortless and cathartic.
Some of those beauties and geniuses were a bit neurotic. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm expressive and easy going - I'll put you at ease with a
good-natured comment......although, I've been told I've got
penetrating eyes, too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
MUSIC: I like everything ... and in this case, I sincerely MEAN
everything - except for rap and heavy industrial grunge metal or
whatever they're calling the growling vocals and cacophonous rage
that's typical of the genre.
Read non-fiction for the most part - like to learn things.
LOVE discovering new and exotic foods but sometimes, ya just can't
beat chocolate pudding and mac & cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Can't do it.
Have spent time in the third world and it really sobered me to what
a person REALLY needs to be happy.
Madison Avenue will never manipulate me and I'll never be
distracted by " Bread & Circuses ."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Myself and my role in society.
Others and their roles in society.
Do we make the choices we do because it benefits us as individuals
and typifies our species or is our behavior modified through
propaganda and conditioned response?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to talk on the phone or meet pretty quickly.
There are folks who'll spend weeks secretly texting and giggling in
the dark of their rooms at night - I'd rather be dating live human
beings like regular people.
Ever gone for coffee on a first date?
Lotta people are pretty nervous making that first contact.
Has it ever gone like this for you?
We each drive there separately, we tell our friends where we're
going ahead of time so we're both safe somehow, in case we're
There's lots of people around so nobody feels obligated or
You're not a rapist - I'm not a rapist, all the lights are on and
we're in the full eye of the public; not to mention, cops are all
over coffee shops so if one of us suddenly goes berserk, the other
one is covered.
Then we get down to business...
We engage in a light conversation and there are no expectations or
feelings of entitlement - no egos, no obvious lies - just an open
exchange of ideas. We keep it simple, guarded and superficial, stay
on our best behavior, act like the other is brilliant or hilarious
and if we're lucky, allow each other to glimpse a mere sliver of
who it is we really are. Hopefully, that's the part the other one
We've each arranged for a friend to call us after about an hour so
we can pretend we need to head off to an important appointment if
it turns out that one of us was a loony, after all.
We walk each other out to the parking lot, say our goodbyes, share
the awkward moment where I'm supposed to kiss you but if it's on
the cheek, you'll think I don't like you and if it's on the lips, I
might be too forward, so I kiss you on the forehead and you feel
like you've just won the Special Olympics.
We both wonder if we played this one right as we stroll up the
rows, stopping in front of a much better car than we arrived in,
pretending to fish in our purses or take a cell call while waving
to the other person as he/she drives off the property.
We mutter something under our breath (hopefully it's complimentary)
and we are either titillated for the rest of the day or can't wait
to get the heck home and back onto Cupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's talk about this later...
I'll admit a bunch....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
They only give choices like - "short term dating," "long term
dating" and "I want you to have my baby."
The fact is, I'm not looking for a platonic friend or I wouldn't be
naive enough to try this site.
However, I'm not desperately racing a clock to land a wife.
We go out.......... we talk.............. we laugh...............
we have fun............
........ we'll know what it is when we're in it.
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