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stewartm

43 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi :D

A quick intro: I am a relationship-oriented person. I'm a dad. I'm living a creative/artistic life. I am committed to building meaning in my life, and seek out others who are doing the same.

I like people. I like my family. I like my friends. I put a lot of energy and love into deepening these relationships. I ask good questions and seek other people who do the same. I like people who are curious about the world, about me, and about themselves. I share my thoughts and feelings with people and I want the same from them. I like people who put thought, intention and energy into deepening their relationships with the people in their life -- friends, siblings, family, boyfriend, etc.

I'm looking for a woman who is creative, smart, funny, sweet, active, compassionate, introspective, mindful, intentional, and wonderful in surprising ways. I am looking for someone who is working on building meaning in her life and going towards her desires. I know it isn't easy and there are many obstacles to overcome, but I want to find someone who is striving for more ("following your bliss" as Joseph Campbell would say). I'm looking for someone with whom I can share all of my joy, fear, hope, curiosity, excitement, confusion, creativity, and everything else in my heart and mind.

My daughter lives with me half the time. She is very important to me and is a great source of joy and fulfillment. I put a lot of thought into creating a life for her that is engaging, fun, rich, challenging, creative/artistic, social, and a million other awesome things.

I find great satisfaction from working on creative/art projects. I love building things. I always have projects brewing in my mind... the ideas come faster than they can be built, but I enjoy both the planning and the building process (often collaboratively).

I spend a lot of time thinking about how to create meaning in my life. I like talking about personal development, spirituality, the subconscious mind, Carl Jung, comparative religion, Buddhism, and anything else that helps me better understand myself, the world, and the people I come in contact with.

I like being physically active... primarily right now I'm running and practicing yoga, but I also like ping pong, throwing a frisbee, dancing, soccer, swimming, and antics.
What I’m doing with my life
And I spend a lot of time cultivating my friendships/relationships that are important to me. I bring a lot of intention and focus to my friendships. I like spending time with friends in ways that are interesting, engaging, stimulating, etc. This sometimes means activities like board gaming, however the most fulfilling contact with friends is simply conversation -- over dinner, wine, cheese, or simply sitting and talking.

I'm a dad. I put a lot of thought, intention, love, and effort into creating a rich and healthy life for my daughter.

I'm currently trying to get people to pay me to do stop-motion animation :D

I also put a lot of energy and thought into my personal development. I am determined to understand myself better. I have seen the ways in which I get stuck in old patterns, and I'm not content to live my life that way. I want to live my life with intention and mindfulness so that those old habits/patterns don't run the show.

and I exercise most days of the week... which currently means running and yoga.
I’m really good at
being a dad
photography
ping pong
parallel parking
making things
bringing inanimate objects to life
playing with LEGOs
playing games (good as in "has fun", not as in "always wins")
exercising regularly
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
authors: Ian McEwan, Tom Robbins, Vladimir Nabokov, Virginia Wolf, William Faulkner, Raold Dahl, Richard Brautigan.

movie directors: Joss Whedon, Michel Gondry, Baz Luhrmann, Mike Leigh, Paul Thomas Anderson, Brothers Quay, Coen Brothers, Jim Henson, Lars von Trier, Stanley Kubrick, PES, Matthew Barney.

movies: Magnolia, Punch Drunk Love, Strictly Ballroom, Moulin Rouge, Pina, Dr. Horrible's Sing-along Blog, Secrets and Lies, The Muppet Movie, The Science of Sleep, The Princess Bride, Eagle vs. Shark, Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World.

music: Tom Waits, Elliott Smith, PJ Harvey, Cat Power, Eleni Mandell, Jollie Holland, The Be Good Tanyas, Modest Mouse, Sonic Youth, Beck, Kimya Dawson, White Stripes, Mountain Goats, Aphex Twin, Pan Sonic, Autechre, Primus, Devo, Johnny Cash, Liars, Smashing Pumpkins, Gorillaz, Louis Armstrong.

artists and illustrators: Van Gogh, Antoni Gaudi, Friedensreich Hundertwasser, Annie Leibovitz, Dave McKean, Lisbeth Zwerger, Shaun Tan, Peter Sis, Chris Ware, Bill Sienkiewicz, Stephane Halleux, and many more.

super awesome dancer: Savion Glover.

food: Mexican! Ethiopian, Thai, Indian, French.

TV: Firefly, Arrested Development, Freaks and Geeks, Twin Peaks, Flight of the Conchords.

thinkers: Carl Jung, Joseph Campbell, Buddha.
The six things I could never do without
my daughter
good-hearted people
cheese
games
art
my camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my daughter
my goals and desires
art projects
my home
fufillment
On a typical Friday night I am
with a friend, playing a board game, building something awesome, watching a movie, editing a video.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like naps.

My basement is a mess.

A few times per year I get a crazy old man eye brow hair that I cut.

karaoke scares me.

And I'm naked underneath all my clothes.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You know what you want in life and are working toward it... even if you are having trouble getting there. Having clarity about goals, desires, and fulfillment is a key part of the kind of relationship I'm looking for.

and message me if you want to:
- play ping pong
- go roller skating
- throw a frisbee
- do some random art project
- go dancing