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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:40pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi :D

A quick intro: I am a relationship-oriented person. I'm a dad. I'm living a creative/artistic life. I am committed to building meaning in my life, and seek out others who are doing the same.

I like people. I like my family. I like my friends. I put a lot of energy and love into deepening these relationships. I ask good questions and seek other people who do the same. I like people who are curious about the world, about me, and about themselves. I share my thoughts and feelings with people and I want the same from them.

I'm looking for a woman who is creative, smart, funny, sweet, active, compassionate, introspective, mindful, intentional, and wonderful in surprising ways. I am looking for someone who is working on building meaning in her life and intentional about her choices. I know it isn't easy and there are many obstacles to overcome, but I want to find someone who is striving for more ("following your bliss" as Joseph Campbell would say).

My daughter lives with me half the time. She is very important to me and is a great source of joy and fulfillment. I put a lot of thought into creating a life for her that is engaging, fun, rich, challenging, creative/artistic, social, and a million other awesome things.

I find great satisfaction from working on creative/art projects. I love building things. I always have projects brewing in my mind... the ideas come faster than they can be built, but I enjoy both the planning and the building process (often collaboratively).

I spend a lot of time thinking about how to create meaning in my life. I like talking about personal development, spirituality, the subconscious mind, Carl Jung, comparative religion, Buddhism, and anything else that helps me better understand myself, the world, and the people I come in contact with.

I like being physically active... primarily right now I'm running and practicing yoga, but I also like ping pong, throwing a frisbee, dancing, soccer, swimming, and antics.
What I’m doing with my life
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I like spending time with my friends. This sometimes means activities like board gaming, however the most fulfilling contact with friends is conversation -- over dinner, wine, cheese, or simply sitting and talking.

I'm a dad. I put a lot of thought, intention, love, and effort into creating a rich and healthy life for my daughter.

I'm own a web design company, which is my primary source of income.

I have a lot of creative projects going on right now... mostly oriented around photography and stop motion animation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a dad
stop motion animation
ping pong
parallel parking
making things
playing with LEGOs
playing games (good as in "has fun", not as in "always wins")
exercising regularly
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look young for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
authors: Ian McEwan, Tom Robbins, Vladimir Nabokov, Virginia Wolf, William Faulkner, Raold Dahl, Richard Brautigan.

movie directors: Joss Whedon, Michel Gondry, Baz Luhrmann, Mike Leigh, Paul Thomas Anderson, Brothers Quay, Coen Brothers, Jim Henson, Lars von Trier, Stanley Kubrick, PES, Matthew Barney.

movies: Magnolia, Punch Drunk Love, Strictly Ballroom, Moulin Rouge, Pina, Dr. Horrible's Sing-along Blog, Secrets and Lies, The Muppet Movie, The Science of Sleep, The Princess Bride, Eagle vs. Shark, Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World.

music: Tom Waits, Elliott Smith, PJ Harvey, Cat Power, Eleni Mandell, Jollie Holland, The Be Good Tanyas, Modest Mouse, Sonic Youth, Beck, Kimya Dawson, White Stripes, Mountain Goats, Aphex Twin, Pan Sonic, Autechre, Primus, Devo, Johnny Cash, Liars, Smashing Pumpkins, Gorillaz, Louis Armstrong.

artists and illustrators: Van Gogh, Antoni Gaudi, Friedensreich Hundertwasser, Annie Leibovitz, Dave McKean, Lisbeth Zwerger, Shaun Tan, Peter Sis, Chris Ware, Bill Sienkiewicz, Stephane Halleux, and many more.

super awesome dancer: Savion Glover.

food: Mexican! Ethiopian, Thai, Indian, French.

TV: Firefly, Arrested Development, Freaks and Geeks, Twin Peaks, Flight of the Conchords.

thinkers: Carl Jung, Joseph Campbell, Buddha.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughter
good-hearted people
my camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my daughter
my goals and desires
art projects
my home
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with friends, playing a board game, building something awesome, watching a movie, editing a video.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like naps.

My basement is a mess.

A few times per year I get a crazy old man eye brow hair that I cut.

karaoke scares me.

And I'm naked underneath all my clothes.
You should message me if
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You know what you want in life and are working toward it... even if you are having trouble getting there. Having clarity about goals, desires, and fulfillment is a key part of the kind of relationship I'm looking for.

and message me if any of the following sound fun or interesting:
- ping pong
- roller skating
- throwing a frisbee
- art projects
- dancing
- watching The Power of Myth
- reading Rumi