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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Aug 5, 2014
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5' 7" (1.71m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Eternal optimist under siege by a self-centered culture. Stress-cleaner. Guitar user. Bulletproof (untested). Invariably scruffy. Gamer. My work schedule's a bit different than most people's so I dig late nights

In exile from Brooklyn for the moment, regrouping and back there ASAP.
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping a major tabloid newspaper entertain the masses every day (while providing healthy disapproval in the form of head-shaking at its chosen political slant) by making sure you get said entertainment on your chosen tablet device. (Digital newspaper editor.)

The rest of the time: Planning to be a rock star, a game journalist, and the Dennis-Quaid-in-The-Rookie of pro soccer (I play keeper for a surprisingly strong weekend beer-league team).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rewriting bad copy, nerdy board games, knowing what year a movie was released, arguing with my cat (most of her points are bullshit straw men).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm told it's my eyes, but prefer to believe it's the ridiculous cowlick.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most recent musical obsessions: Golden Dogs, Tame Impala, The Ugly Club, The Envy Corps, Passenger, Mogwai. Forever enjoying: Umphrey's McGee, Blues Traveler, (any jam band, really), Foo Fighters, Guster, Bowie, Green Day, Explosions in the Sky, The Streets ... this is silly, I love most everything. Really. Jazz, good hip-hop, bluegrass. Here's a sparse sampling:

Last three books read: The Dresden Files: Summer Knight (Jim Butcher), Heart Shaped Box (Joe Hill), Pirate Cinema (Cory Doctorow)... Predominantly fiction. I read enough about real life at work. Really enjoy Palahniuk's stuff, HST and all the requisite fantasy and horror trash.

Last few shows I caught up on: Fringe, Homeland, Parks & Recreation, Burn Notice. Newly minted Doctor Who freak. Dexter, Ed, Life on Mars (the UK one), Alias, Firefly and Battlestar hover at the top of my all-time favorites.

Movies: I'll watch ANYTHING, but LotR is a favorite for the nerdly nostalgia it provides. Fincher, Tarantino, Wes Anderson, Charlie Kaufman. Really, though I'll sit though anything. Just not in a crowded theater. I'm not an animal.

Food? A good grilled cheese sammy beats pretty much anything. 'Cept maybe the pickle that comes with it. I'm a bit squeamish, but I'll try absolutely anything within reason. No shellfish though. Shellfish remind me of bugs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A well-oiled PC, patient friends, coffee, IPAs, a good view of the clouds, easy access to live music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
'How could I have stained a black T-shirt?'
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Spiders are terrifying.
You should message me if
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... you're habitually up late.

... going to a gig (maybe being IN the gig) or maybe a soccer match/football game/hockey game and screaming your lungs out (at any/all) sound like fun.

... you can handle yourself at Tetris.

... you walk on escalators.

... you have never (or have at least eradicated all evidence of having) done the duckface ... in earnest or ironically.

... maybe you just want some lunch... I'm good with lunch. Let's get some lunch. I'll probably order breakfast.