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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 1
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism and it’s important
Wants kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Cynical romantic. Absent-minded genius. Eternally inquisitive. Pragmatic idealist. Passionate citizen of the world. Gypsy with Mad Men furniture.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying the brain. Acting smart. Dropping knowledge.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I listen to other people rather than waiting for my turn to speak.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The best art is a bit boring. The best food is a bit odd.

Ok, more specific:
Great Expectations and Infinite Jest (which I just finished). Reading the great novels. Currently on One Hundred Years of Solitude + Eight Mindful Steps to Happiness.
EDM, esp House, and anything with a hook.

Lawrence of Arabia for the epic-ness. Barry Lyndon too. Hotel Rwanda for the pain. Matrix for the mind-fuck. Moulin Rouge for the music and love is bittersweet. Casablanca too. Almost Famous for the heart. Children of Men for that incredible dolly shot in and out of the car. The Pianist because pain + music = emotion. Scrooge (1970 musical) as my not-so-hidden secret.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Discovering discoveries.
Synchonocities, serendipities, and other random quizzicalities.
Experiments in being poetic without being pedantic.
Being present and disregarding fear.
Knowing something I did not know the day before.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Can you have a romantic beginning to a relationship through a meeting on OKC? Is there a way to meet people through this site, but still have that eye-across-the-room magic that only happens through serendipity?

Also: In the video for Lionel Richie's Hello (winner of 1983 best video) he's totally stalking a blind student of his. Other than the problem with the uneven power dynamic, I'm pretty sure the last person looking for Lionel is someone who's blind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've rewritten my profile so many times it's kinda funny. At the moment it's short and cryptic. Previously it's been longer and honest. Mostly it shows my ambivalence meeting people on-line.

Also I might eat chicken and waffles every time we do brunch.
You should message me if
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you are intelligent, attractive, confident, and have opinions. Even if those opinions are different from mine.