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  • Ages 18-40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Fine Arts degreed, subsisting on odd jobs.
Curious, analytical, pragmatic but soft edged. Well-read but broad-focused.
Well-intentioned loner: randomly, selectively social.
Laid back, friendly, affectionate smart-ass.
Feeling simultaneously inferior and superior to everyone I meet.

I am DIY, iconoclastic, and voided warranty
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning all I can about your strange land,
Embracing cynicism, fighting pessimism,
Daydreaming about patterns, loops, coincidence,
Learning to cook and be thrifty, to minimize wastefulness,
Watching things grow,
Writing music, drawing diagrams,
Drumming, Didjing, Vocalizing, recording it,
Building a new network of friends and acquaintances,
Planning my next break from my old pathology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, drumming, dancing,
Using every utensil in my kitchen when trying to cook one thing,
Misplacing things, forgetting to finish my senten
Sounding like an expert on topics I know little about,
Listening and offering alternative perspective to your dilemmas,
Making up new words to songs on the radio,
Finding the sources of obscure quotes and samples found in collage music,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I'm talking to myself or humming a tune.

Usually I feel invisible, but then I'll have some kind of awkward interaction with a stranger and realize it's not true.

I'm a bit of a daydreamer and the here-and-now people often mistake me for a here-and-now person. Awkward moment ensues.

You tell me, what is it about me that has captured your interest thus far?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Philosophy, non-fiction, self-help, education, aesthetics, sketchbooks, diatribes found lying in the street.
I like some fiction, but fantasy not so much: I read to investigate reality, not to escape it.

Music: Cacophonous synthetics, french-fried samples, deeply layered instrumental textures. Rhythm heavy bombast, genre-defiant novelty. Organic electronics, eclectic grooves and rootsy guitar driven jams. Psychedelic freakouts. Introspective lyrics. Music for loners and freaks. No whining, no bling-bling, no clear-channel favorites.

Movies: Existential drama, audience confrontation, quirky indie comedy, cult animation, seminal classics.

Food: I eat it. Make it extra spicy, por favor.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Do what without?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how comfort is the enemy of self improvement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
accruing green paper.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As a child, I was an imaginary friend.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know what I can teach you about yourself.

You want to go with me to a midnight screening at Facets.