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ABigBear

31 Paris, France Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:24pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.90m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Pragmatic dreamer with a realistic perspective
A do-er with an intuitive approach
A thinker with a multicultural sensitivity
Rational appearance with a warm heart

In summary,
Dynamic as
http://youtu.be/4OJnECQc4Fc
Chilled as
http://youtu.be/_5XfAYZAA7w
Feeling as
http://youtu.be/yZEk1LSApyQ
Romantic as
http://youtu.be/n3RSlUkw9U0
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Contemplating world domination
- Making sense of nonsensical bits
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Steaming vegetables
- Watching meat cook so it does not burn
- Philosophising over wine
- Dancing for 8h+ on good beats
- Grabbing my partner (you?) with my big soft hands
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Destroyer, Sasha, Bonobo, Gui Boratto, Mahler, Ravel, Jazz, Kings of Convenience, Radiohead, the 1975, Doors, M83
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- A fine nicely made meal
- Music
- Working out the daily stress
- Good coffee
- Quiet quality time
- Intense fun times
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- What I should be thinking about
- Evolution and humans. Are we animals?
- What's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In a plane
In a train
In a bar
In a concert hall
In a couch
In a CrossFit gym
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a sweet doll and a strong lady, a positive mindset and a fun attitude all wrapped into one

You prefer real life over online life (Nobody real wants a relationship on their phone/computer)