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54 Farmington, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was on this site months ago, met someone and they left.
I believe the most important quality in a person and essential to a relationship is honesty. I have been through a lot, and games, dating for just that, are of no interest to me.

Less than a month ago something profound and fantastic happened to me. It has changed my entire life in a good way. I will even bet some of my answers to some of my questions will be a bit off now. If you find me of interest ask me what happened it is amazing.

I lost a lot in my life, went through a lot, and came out of it clear of the little things that get in the way of truly knowing someone. I like myself, laugh at myself with ease and can accept my limitations. I have been told often that I have empathy, and humor, I can be serious, and romantic, and I find kindness to be number two after honesty. So I am back on this site looking again, for that one person who my life and theirs can fit into. I do not intend to spend my life alone but I will not settle either.

I am an educated, intelligent guy that can lose his keys, get lost, or be confused by a lady. While I enjoy a wide diversity of activities from the outdoors, eating out, and staying in I have come to realize that none of it matters as much as the person you share the moment with. It has always been for me about the conversation rather than the meal. A life, a sunset, a walk has real meaning when shared.

As I said I value honesty above all else, I am real, I am nice, and hold my integrity as my defining attribute.

I am not here to play games I am here for something real
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Re starting everything, and caring about those who need help
I work to save animals, hold degrees in zoology, and left the corporate world to find meaning in a job that has immediate effects on the neediest animals in our society. I am still an executive manager, but my focus has more meaning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and with someone being in the moment. Life is too short not to be. I believe empathy defines our humanity
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That they didn't notice me at first, but my ability to be nice seems to come across first....hmmmm seems corny for a guy to say but ladies often notice my eyes too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movie - What dreams may come plus lots more
Philosophy and science
Books for fun - Childhoods end
all kinds of food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Depends on the moment, My interests are diverse if not exasperatingly eclectic . Everything from string theory to what makes string cheese. I also think about my place in the world, how I can help others, where I want to be and whether I have get there alone
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie, working, working out, enjoying time with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I know you, there are no limits, no secrets, only honesty
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for an honest, open, nice guy. if you are not interested in games, or lies. If you are an honest caring person
If you have some suggestions to improve Let me know. The pictures are reversed now and #2 Is a few months more recent