I was on this site months ago, met someone and they left.
I believe the most important quality in a person and essential to a relationship is honesty. I have been through a lot, and games, dating for just that, are of no interest to me.
Less than a month ago something profound and fantastic happened to me. It has changed my entire life in a good way. I will even bet some of my answers to some of my questions will be a bit off now. If you find me of interest ask me what happened it is amazing.
I lost a lot in my life, went through a lot, and came out of it clear of the little things that get in the way of truly knowing someone. I like myself, laugh at myself with ease and can accept my limitations. I have been told often that I have empathy, and humor, I can be serious, and romantic, and I find kindness to be number two after honesty. So I am back on this site looking again, for that one person who my life and theirs can fit into. I do not intend to spend my life alone but I will not settle either.
I am an educated, intelligent guy that can lose his keys, get lost, or be confused by a lady. While I enjoy a wide diversity of activities from the outdoors, eating out, and staying in I have come to realize that none of it matters as much as the person you share the moment with. It has always been for me about the conversation rather than the meal. A life, a sunset, a walk has real meaning when shared.
As I said I value honesty above all else, I am real, I am nice, and hold my integrity as my defining attribute.
I am not here to play games I am here for something real