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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 26
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
English, French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Yiddish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am originally from the east coast and moved to San Francisco fourteen years ago. Something about the colors of the houses, the width of the sky, and the way you can turn a random corner and suddenly be presented with this incredible view.

I currently have a pretty normal office job, but in the past I’ve been a residential supervisor at a school for rich ne’er-do-wells, and sportswriter with an expertise in horse racing.

On the weekends, I might drive down to Moss Beach and splash around in the tidepools, or ride my motorcycle up to Bolinas, or babysit my friend’s 7 year old daughter. Sometimes I stay home and read. Sometimes I volunteer. Sometimes I shop at odd food stores and then go home to figure out what to make with it all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Answering random questions.
Making chocolate souffle.
Hand sewing. Not that I do it often, and yes, I was very surprised.
Growing jade plants. Orchids, well, sometimes I return them from the brink to flowering health. Sometimes I was the one who sent them to the brink. Sometimes I can't bring them back.
Brewing tea.
Making long meandering travel plans
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am tall
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Blood Meridian
The Maltese Falcon
The Sound and the Fury
High Fidelity
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
Swing Hammer Swing
Apocalypse Now
Taxi Driver
Chungking Express
High and Low
Jeanne Dielman, 23 Quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles
Hard Boiled
Five by Monk by Five
File Under Easy Listening
Labour of Lust
Talking to the Taxman about Poetry
Rain Dogs
Double Nickels on the Dime
...and don't get me started about food. The variety might be my favorite thing about San Francisco....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What country I am traveling to next.
Thinking less
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the izakaya I've frequented for the last dozen years.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am fairly serious about Buddhist practice.
You should message me if
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You want to share the ups and downs of a wander through another country (or up and down the coast, or just another neighborhood in SF), to experience what the life there is like, what the food there is like, to see what there is to see.

You think cooking together is romantic (or having me clean up as you are cooking, or vice versa, which is not to say that I think you cleaning up after me is romantic...maybe I better just stop now)

You are looking for a warm, honest, intimate, committed relationship.

You see something that makes you say "Yeah, right, that's it."