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stjan08

53 M Springwater, NY

My Details

Last Online
Mar 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I live in the country, actually in the middle of nowhere, and I like it most of the time.I do like to travel to sightsee natural,historical,and some religious places quite frequently.

I am adventurous, humble, and practical. I AM PRETTY MUCH SELF-RELIANT
What I’m doing with my life
picking up the pieces since i lost my wife 5 years ago.
being back in the pool is a bit exciting and yet uncomfortable.
I go to the VA all the time to get in better shape and for conselling, they have helped me a lot with the grief and mourning.
I attend church regularly, and help out at the VFW when I can.
I do alot of travelling for pleasure.Was just in Puerto Rico & Florida in Feb. Am thinking of going South to Florida again, May even ride down on a motorcycle!! Enjoy Bowling on a league, golf on a league, riding on Sat. mornings for local causes, being outside.
I’m really good at
Being a friend, listening and giving helpful advice.
I love to drive and am willing to go just about anywhere.
wine- tasting !!! I am thrifty, yet will spend money freely on travels.
The first things people usually notice about me
MY ATTITUDE (could be my beard & pony-tail! LOL !!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
history,comedy,60's-90's,mexican & asian, & seafood, & anything thats grilled or BBQ
The six things I could never do without
FAITH,FRESH AIR,THE OPEN ROAD,A TASTY MEAL,THE THIRST FOR KNOWLEDGE,AND A GOOD CONVERSATION
I spend a lot of time thinking about
LIFE AND DEATH,WHAT LIES AHEAD,THE BEACH, MOUNTAINS,PLACES I HAVE BEEN & WANT TO SEE
Why I had to lose the love of my life so suddenly, and how it has affected me. Wonderng if there is any chance that I could find anyone who would have the passionate, caring,dedicated,loving,understanding,humorous heart that I have lost?!!? IS there really more than one-in-a-million needle in a haystack?? Where can I go from HERE!!
On a typical Friday night I am
AT THE LEGION FOR A FISH-FRY, OR HOME DOING THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE; I NO LONGER GO TO THE FISH-FRY VERY OFTEN,I AM MORE LIKELY GETTING READY FOR A TRIP THE NEXT DAY . WHETHER FOR THE DAY, THE WEEKEND OR FOR A WEEK.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I DO know what love really is! I have had it and have lost it through a sudden horrendous event. But as they say -- It is better to have LOVED and Lost; than it is to never have loved at all.!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
YOU LIKE TO TRAVEL,SIGHT-SEEING,LIKE BEING OUTSIDE,NEED AN EAR TO LISTEN OR OFFER ONE TO HEAR OR ---- THINK YOU KNOW WHAT LOVE IS ?!!!!!!!!?
ALSO ---- LOSING A SPOUSE IS NOT A DIVORCE!!!!! IT WILL BE
WITH ME FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE...(PERIOD)...
MOST OF YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF UNDERSTANDIND THAT FACT.
I WISH TO MOVE ON, YET SOME THINK THAT MEMORIES OF A GOOD LOVE THAT WAS LOST IS A ROAD BLOCK FOR THEM!!!
HOW SELF-CENTERED AND DISAPPOINTING THAT IS!!!
I AM WORTH MORE,........WHO CAN HANDLE IT???