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  • Ages 21-48
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Space camp
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
37 year old married bisexual guy in a completely open relationship with my bisexual wife. Or, what I like to call a traditional American marriage and family situation.

I am a professional, well-educated, in good shape, and LOVE to talk and be talked to. Nothing is sexier than intelligence and conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working too much and finding time to have fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, talking, learning, listening, reasoning, driving (really), doing laundry (really), certain intimate acts, some sports, reading.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Looks: hazel green eyes

Personality: I seem reserved at first, but open up quickly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Classics and moderns: Milton, Paradise Lost; Shakespeare; Goethe; The Brothers Karamazov, The Magic Mountain, and anything by Dostoyevsky or T. Mann; The Immoralist, Nietsche, Wilde, Kafka, Hesse, Philip Roth (most anything), etc. (small sample)

Also love His Dark Materials by Philip Pullman, Girl With the Dragon Tattoo trilogy, and Hunger Games trilogy.

Movies: anything with Anthony Hopkins or Paul Newman. Like classics, 1940s, 60s movies, and Elizabeth Taylor. One of faves is Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolfe?. Like sci-fi and fantasy movies and clever comedies.

Shows: Grimm, The Blacklist, Elementary, Sleepy Hollow, Brooklyn 99 right now.

Music: Bob Dylan above all else. Many, many others, but start and end with BD.

Food: not much I won't eat or at least try once or twice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. Computer-like devices
3. Car
4. Baseball
5. Passion for what I love
6. Family/friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, which makes things a little difficult sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, I'm usually working. If not, then watching TV, out with friends, relaxing with family, or decompressing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really a vampire?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are open, experimental, accept that life is a one-time chance without re-do, intelligent, interesting, quirky, confident, love conversation, surprising, or just want to chat. Did I mention I really LOVE talking?