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45 M Portland, OR

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
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Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Father, lover, metalhead, runner, cyclist...jack of all trades.

Message me...i only look scary.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising my daughter and helping my disabled son transition into adulthood.

Lets talk about it over coffee...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything ive ever set my mind will annoy you.

(Pretty sure the only thing i'm not good at is sending messages on okc...guess i just havent set my mind to it yet.)

Making ganache.


Practicing empathy.



Being silent.

Fishing, even tho im mostly retired from it.

Not getting a haircut.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm smarter than i look.

My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I go through phases where i read voraciously and others where i don't read much at all. Right now i read alot but its mostly things from the internet.

For the most part I've quit watching new hollywood movies. I've seen enough fiery explosions, retread ideas and horrible dialog. Not a big fan of the concept of 'mindless entertainment'.

I watch some television but commercials drive me batshit crazy. My favorite shows are Game of Thrones, Shameless, and Californication. My daughter and I like to watch cooking/food shows together like Chopped and No Reservations. I also watch britcoms like The IT Crowd and Peep Show..........pretty much MMA anything by default.

I'm a metalhead. Not like 'Pantera fan' metalhead (not that theres anything wrong with Pantera)...i like bits and pieces from every genre of metal. Too many to list. I'm attracted to alot of other really cool music when i hear it, especially if it has dark undertones (or overtones, for that matter)....

I am an avid mixed martial arts fan. I wouldnt call it an obsession but i do devote alot of energy to it. I used to be way into football and baseball but have given up interest in either, the reasons for which are complex and better suited to a conversation than text box.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.






I smoke pot. If this bothers you I suggest taking a look at the world in which we live and shutting the fuck up. Yes, I'm bastardizing Bill Hicks.

Ive gone without every single one of these except Love and everything turned out just fine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now.

Whats next?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Im not a party animal and i have obligations at home most nights...

Tonight, its muay thai, mma, beer and, right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes, when i'm by myself, i listen to Duran Duran.

Im only hairy from the neck up.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. find sasquatch intriguing. tell me whether or not i should shave and why.