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42 / M / straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Pacific Islander, White
Height
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, German (Poorly), Cebuano (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly), Maori (Poorly)

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I am Fuzzy, Frumpy, and Mad as a hatter.

My Self-Summary

Somewhat frumpy, somewhat fuzzy, 200% geek, rounded in the middle, 2 green eyes, 2 pink ears, 10 fingers, 10 toes and some plumbing hiding away somewhere.

There's a touch of grey frost up top (no shiny patches), a few bags & sags elsewhere, but I've still got my own teeth and no bearskin rugs (front or back)

I love cuddling kissing and discussions with a strong emphasis on geeky.

Not so keen on dancing - but mainly because I feel self concious about being out there. Who wants to teach?

What I’m doing with my life

IT manager in a university laboratory and enjoying it. They're even crazier than I am and they really ARE rocket scientists.

Currently messing round with alternative fuels on an old car I can afford to break. I said I was a geek!

Procrastinating about all the stuff I should be doing.

I’m really good at

Breaking computers, navel gazing and scratching my kitties behind the ears.

Not so good at housework, but I can cook when I can be bothered - living alone destroys the urge to do this.

I love to take photographs, but that's sporadic and half the time I'm kicking myself about having left the camera at home.

Procrastinating.

The first things people usually notice about me

Eyes and smile.

According to some, I look way too serious all the time, but apparently that makes the funny stuff seem even funnier.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Anything by Pratchett (sarcasm and parody rule), Love gothic movies, indie music (but will listen to almost anything) and as for food - surprise me.

Currently reading: very little. Last book was a great wee read called "Kluge" - about how messed up our brains are.

Silly movies are great. Ferris Bueller, Howard the Duck, Stardust, all of the Python stuff (and ex-python related material) but I also like lots of SF

I thought Donnie Darko was great, but most people I've spoken to don't seem to get it.

Foodwise: As long as it's not stodge, I love almost all of it (especially desserts), but it doesn't love my waistline.

The six things I could never do without

Family and friends, Decent coffee and maple walnut ice cream, Books and music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Work stuff, puzzles and how to save the world.

Wondering why my top-ranking matches here are almost always bisexual women between 19 and 28 - mainly because as far as I can tell they have no interest in me.

Why people keep mistaking me for a woman. FFS, I have a hairy face most of the time, do they think I'm Zorba's sister?

On a typical Friday night I am

Being boring at home, or stuck late at work. :(

Save me!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Uh.... no. It might frighten you off.

You should message me if

You want to get to know me better.

You want to drag me off for a dirty weekend somewhere.

You need a fellow screamer on a roller coaster ride.

Happy to chat, come talk to me!